Bondage is the art of restraining someone or tying them up in some way that induces intense feelings of sexual gratification for both parties in opposite ways. It can be as simple as tying a simple knot or as sophisticated as Shibari or Japanese rope bondage. The person being tied up can relax and allow the person doing the tying to provide pleasure for them, which in this case is related to feelings of helplessness and lack of free-will. The individual doing the tying up derives an equal and opposite enjoyment from their own feelings of empowerment. Power, in this context of discipline for the sake of arousal, must not be abused. It will never become an issue as long as both partners approach bondage games in an atmosphere of mutual trust. Being tied up by someone you trust implicitly allows you to feel protected and cherished in a way that can't be experienced at any other time. Tying someone up, on the other hand, makes you feel trusted and needed by them in return. It is taken for granted that people in high powered jobs like these kind of sexual games, because they are able to let someone else take control so that they can lose control. It is also fair to say that it is usually imaginative people who enjoy these games, because they are better able to get lost inside them. Items that can be used for restraints can include ropes, scarves, neck-ties, ribbons, underwear or hosiery.
Unboxing The New Erotic Accessories from Bijoux Indiscrets

Unboxing The New Erotic Accessories from Bijoux Indiscrets

When I saw the hip chains from the new collection by Bijoux Indiscrets, I knew that they would be ideal for this type of erotic game. There is also something very alluring about being naked except for a chain (or two). Feeling something cold and metallic draped against your skin that moves against you with each step you take is incredibly arousing. It's like 'I'm dressed but naked'. The hip chains highlight the curve and form of your figure even more than being naked does.

Womanizer Pro W500 – Sex Toy Review

Womanizer Pro W500 – Sex Toy Review

The first Womanizer 100 has been very successful internationally. According to numerous reports, women around the world have experienced the same rapid, incredibly intense, orgasms thanks to this highly original sex toy. Womanizer Pro W500 is a clitoral stimulator that looks like an ear thermometer but in fact, it's a highly effective suction device for the clitoris. Now, with a new shape and even more suction power than its predecessor.

Smart Vibe Ring from TENGA – Sex Toy Review

Smart Vibe Ring from TENGA – Sex Toy Review

Smart Vibe Ring from TENGA – A high-end, rechargeable cock ring specially designed for a natural fit. There are wedding rings, engagement rings, eternity rings and many other types. There's no doubt that rings often symbolise love and commitment. Even Beyoncé sang: “'Cause if you liked it, then you shoulda put a ring on it,” in her hit single All The Single Ladies. But, what about cock rings?

Miss Bi from Fun Factory Sex Toy Review

Miss Bi from Fun Factory Sex Toy Review

MISS BI from FUN FACTORY is a rabbit vibrator that offers dual stimulation. This isn't just down to its two motors - one for the clitoris and the other located in the shaft to provide vaginal stimulation - but also because they are designed to operate independently. Each motor has its own corresponding button, so the result is a wide variety of combinations to achieve stimulation. Miss Bi is also intelligent. You can store whichever combination you prefer. Its shape is ergonomic and it’s very comfortable to hold

Symphony Wand Massager from Adrien Lastic – Sex Toy Review

Symphony Wand Massager from Adrien Lastic – Sex Toy Review

Wand massagers have the reputation of being highly effective and scandalously loud. They have to be plugged into the mains and are often so powerful that, after climaxing, the vulva is left tingling and numb for some time afterwards. Some user's enjoy this sensation. If, on the other hand, you're looking for one with a subtler effect, Adrien Lastic’s Symphony has all the traditional advantages of a wand massager but does away with the disadvantages. Symphony is smaller, a lot quieter and doesn’t have a

GIVEAWAY: Win a Vibrating Diamond from Bijoux indiscrets

GIVEAWAY: Win a Vibrating Diamond from Bijoux indiscrets

Although I'm British, this year I will be celebrating Thanksgiving for the first time. I'll be giving away a very special prize from Bijoux Indiscrets, a leading erotic accessory company based in Barcelona, Spain. The lucky winner will receive a vibrating diamond and some massage gel. This is also my very first international giveaway that's open to all countries (as long as you are over 18 years old of course).

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

In some BDSM kits, the feather ticklers that are included aren't fit for purpose; they supply a bit of relaxing fun for someone who's on the receiving end but that's all. If you want to tickle someone properly then a different kind of equipment is worth considering. Real enthusiasts of tickling do without mundane feathers or little pieces of coloured fluff. They know precisely which tickle fetish toys will yield the desired results. In fact, Mother Nature has amply provided us with a wonderful variety of organic options.

Sex Toy Review – Luna Smart Bead by LELO

Sex Toy Review – Luna Smart Bead by LELO

I've just finished the first session with my new personal trainer and I can't wait to begin the next one. Sometimes it can be hard to get in the mood to do any kind of sport and it seems like a real chore when you're doing it. It's only afterwards that you feel glad to have put in all the effort. Eventually, when you begin to see the real results of your hard work, the motivation to take exercise more regularly comes easily. When it comes to toning-up the pelvic floor, the rewards are even more obvious.

Toys for the boys! The New Sex Toys for Men by LELO

Toys for the boys! The New Sex Toys for Men by LELO

'But aren't there any sex toys for men?' That's a question I've often been asked by men especially after I've told them about my own amazing collection of sex toys. More than one of them has even confessed that he would like to be a woman just to try them all out. It's true that women have a much wider range of erotic toys to choose from. This is beginning to change. LELO, a brand leader, has just launched three new sex toys for men.