This blog was initially intended to be a fetish blog. Soon after its creation in 2009,  I began collaborating with a wide variety of Spanish media outlets including: GQ, El País, Playboy, Objetivo Bienestar, Primera Linea, Interviu and Antena 3 TV amongst others. As this was at a time that predated the 50 Shades of Grey era, I was asked to write about general sex and relationships topics . In this category, you will find translations of my articles that were originally published in Spanish media. Including topics such as: masturbation, orgasms, infidelity, sexual confessions, sex tips, singles, dating, online dating, cybersex, sexting, advice, myths and much more. Articles are published every Friday. If you want to read my sex toy reviews click here.
 
Have You Got Any Condoms?

Have You Got Any Condoms?

According to my experience, condoms are like cigarettes: every man has his favorite brand. His preference might depend on comfort, sensitivity, or simply because a particular brand has never let him down. When I was studying at University, condoms were given away for free. We could drop by the medical center and pick up as many as we wanted. In addition, there were several different types and brands to choose from. I only realized how fortunate the situation was when I came to Spain and had to pay for them myself. The truth is I didn't know they were so expensive. As a solution, I made my boyfriends buy them.

Ode to the Domestic Gods

Ode to the Domestic Gods

For me there's nothing better than having an authentic domestic god in my house. He's a man who is tidy, is a good cook and who, above all, finds pleasure from serving a woman. I don't just want one for the sake of convenience, or to enjoy the benefits of a tidy environment without having to lift a finger or to taste delicious food that I haven't had to prepare for myself. Just the idea of domestic godliness is something that never fails to seduce me.

Wake Up with One Guy, Go To Bed with Another

Wake Up with One Guy, Go To Bed with Another

I prefer that a certain amount of time goes by between having one lover and the next. And, I'm not just talking about the time it takes to have a shower and to change the sheets - I mean a space of several days at least. When I was talking about this subject to a friend recently, he explained that just after he's woken up with one women, he becomes anxious to sleep with another one that very day.

Sleeping in Separate Bedrooms

Sleeping in Separate Bedrooms

Today, the most common excuse for avoiding sex is: 'I'm tired'.This simple phrase seems to be replacing the classic: 'Sorry, I've got a headache'. Given that the amount of sleeping disorders has increased with our hectic lives, it's really no wonder that more and more couples have chosen to sleep in separate bedrooms during the working week. Oddly enough, many of them claim that this unusual arrangement not only gives them a far better quality of sleep but that doing so has improved their sex life as well.

Long Distance Lovers

Long Distance Lovers

The most frustrating part of travelling is the arrival. Just when you think that you've reached the end of the journey, you still have to hang on a little bit longer. If you're on a train, it slows down to a crawl as it approaches the station. If, on the other hand, you're on a plane that's just touched down, you still have to sit and wait until everyone else has taken their luggage down. You're there, where you want to be but you're still kept a short distance away from complete fulfilment. Holding on seems to take an eternity, especially if you have a long distance lover waiting for you..

The Complicated World of Married Lovers

The Complicated World of Married Lovers

Having a lover who's married can be a complicated situation for several reasons. It's never easy to meet up with them, especially spontaneously, and the time that you actually get to spend with them is always going to be limited. Just getting into contact with them can present difficulties; you just never know if they're alone, with their official partners or busy with their families. An ongoing affair requires care and discretion at all times.

When Office Flirting Becomes Something More…

When Office Flirting Becomes Something More…

Flirting in the office is usually just an innocent game that helps to pass the time and brightens up the day. It also acts as a wonderful distraction from the tedious tasks of daily employment. Sometimes, you don't even need to be partiularly attracted to the person you are flirting with either. When you spend all of your working day confined in the same space, hour after hour, with the very same people, your tastes may change without you even being aware of it.