Venus O'Hara's Fetish GlossaryThe word fetish derives from 15th century Portuguese feitiço, which meant charm or spell. A fetish is an object believed to have supernatural powers, or in particular, a man-made object that has power over others. Essentially, fetishism is the attribution of inherent value or powers to an object. The terms "erotic fetish" and "sexual fetish" were first introduced by the French psychologist Alfred Binet in the 1940s. Today a “fetish” is an object, non-reproductive body part or action whose presence or existence causes excitement and/or arousal in an individual. An object might be latex or heels, a non-sexual body part could be legs or feet and tickling or smoking are examples of actions. “Fetish” is also used as an adjective that relates to anything connected to the world of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadomasochism) such as fetish wear or fetish clubs. Please find Venus O'Hara's Fetish Glossary below with definitions and images.
 
Lea by Feelz Toys – A very Happy Bunny

Lea by Feelz Toys – A very Happy Bunny

I was in a terrible mood when I tried Lea by Feelz Toys for the first time. I had just been woken up in the early hours of the morning by my flatmate / frenemy who was making  a great deal of unnecessary noise. It was clear that he didn’t give two hoots about whether I got enough sleep or not. His coughing, door slamming and stomping around made it clear that we are going through the equivalent of a platonic separation. Our situation is reminiscent of a film that I remember seeing. ‘The Breakup (2006)’ starring Jennifer Aniston and Vince Vaughn tells the story of a couple trying to go their separate ways.

Review Zumio, a powerful clitoral stimulator – Venus O’Hara Sex Blogger

Review Zumio, a powerful clitoral stimulator – Venus O’Hara Sex Blogger

When I went to bed - I decided to test Zumio, a powerful clitoral stimulator that's ideal for enjoying pinpoint pleasure. Naturally, I wondered what it would be like to share Zumio with another woman as I revisited my sapphic fantasies. I put Zumio to work on my hungry clitoris and closed my eyes. I imagined soft skin, expert caresses and - of course - the singular sensation of four breasts rubbing together.

Shoe Dangling Fetish

Shoe Dangling Fetish

Shoe dangling can appeal to shoe fetishists, foot fetishists or both at the same time. I do wonder if the thrill that shoe dangling fetishists experience when a woman dangles her high heel shoes is the same If her balancing ability isn't up to scratch, and the shoe falls to the ground suddenly and unintentionally, is it a turn on? Perhaps it's the anticipation of the shoe dropping, and not the event itself, that causes so much arousal?

A Ticklee’s Perspective

A Ticklee’s Perspective

What I needed to explore, and capture, was my own foot voyeurism potential; the ticklee's fetish perspective. I wanted my foot fans to see what I see: when I'm lying on my back, when my ankles are tied, when I'm looking down at my toes and when a big pair of male hands have got to work on them. The photographer had no problem with handing his camera over for me to use. As he explained "Now, I've got both hands free, to tickle you

Foot Fetish Calendar 2016

Foot Fetish Calendar 2016

Venus O'Hara's official foot fetish calendar 2016. It's that time of year again. When it was ready to put my 2016 calendar together, I knew that I wanted to produce something different from last years gallery of themed selfies. But this year, I've decided to produce foot fetish calendar. The more I thought about my feet on other peoples' walls, the more innovative it seemed.

The Dangers of Cybersex

The Dangers of Cybersex

When it comes to sex in the real world, there are always condoms. But, how can we protect ourselves during a cybersex session? It’s quite true that cybersex doesn't expose you to the risk of sexually transmitted infections, but there are specific dangers inherent. The most obvious one is that our 'private' chat is nothing of the kind.

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

In some BDSM kits, the feather ticklers that are included aren't fit for purpose; they supply a bit of relaxing fun for someone who's on the receiving end but that's all. If you want to tickle someone properly then a different kind of equipment is worth considering. Real enthusiasts of tickling do without mundane feathers or little pieces of coloured fluff. They know precisely which tickle fetish toys will yield the desired results. In fact, Mother Nature has amply provided us with a wonderful variety of organic options.

The Appeal of Wrinkled Soles (Foot Fetish)

The Appeal of Wrinkled Soles (Foot Fetish)

For most people wrinkles are an inevitable, if highly unwelcome, fact of getting older. Our increasingly image-conscious society is governed by the impossibly youthful standards set by popular culture. When it comes to foot fetish, it's a different story. Some enthusiasts get off on wrinkled soles. As a result of the correct application of expert tickling, the foot can tense up.Toe-curling can follow and the soft sole can ripple prettily as a consequence.