Words matter. Especially when it comes to seduction. I used to love going on dating sites and apps whenever I had gone for an extended period without sex. It often seemed easier to meet my potential lovers this way, as opposed to going out to a bar or to a nightclub. One clear advantage was that I could do it anywhere: at home, in a cafe, and even on public transport. All I needed was my mobile and a wifi connection. Whether I was looking for a casual fling or something more, I used to just publish my profile and then wait for the messages to arrive. As I looked through my inbox that was full of messages from my wannabe next lovers, I must admit that I didn’t look at the profile pictures; I paid much more attention to their writing style.

The Dating Profile

Let me explain.

I always ignored those typical “hi, how r u” messages, no matter how attractive the sender was. It just screamed ‘copy and paste’ to me. I imagined that they had probably sent dozens of identical messages to anyone with a heartbeat and they were just waiting to see who replied.

I was always more likely to respond to someone who had actually taken the time to read my profile and make the effort to write something that was obviously personal to me. Attention to detail is something that I really admire in people.

Cybersex Session

Personally, I can’t tolerate spelling mistakes or vulgar language in the seduction phase. Interestingly, I’m willing to be much more flexible about spelling and grammar accuracy if we happen to indulge in a cybersex session. After all, one-hand typing omissions are inevitable when you have another, more important, task at hand…

What really gets me going about words is that they can be enough to arouse me and get my juices flowing without having to touch me. It is proof that our biggest sexual organ is the brain. The right words can seduce my mind and ignite my imagination.

Sexting Before Meeting

Sexting can be an exciting part of the seduction phase with someone you intend on being intimate with one day. It can also be the very opposite. For example, it can be a fun moment with someone you never intend on meeting in person. They might even be on the other side of the world.

Sexting is ideal for those times when you want to be alone, but you also want to connect with someone on an intimate level. You don’t have to worry about shaving your legs (or any other parts of your body). Nor do you have to endure any awkward after-sex conversations, worry about performance anxiety or sexually transmitted infections, as there are no bodily fluids exchanged.

It can also keep the spark alive in a long distance relationship or in a relationship where one of the partners has to travel for work.

Sexting can also be a safe alternative to infidelity for those who are in a committed relationship and are curious about connecting with another person sexually, but who don’t want to risk problems in their primary relationship. As there is no actual physical contact, many people would consider that it isn’t technically being unfaithful.

But one of the best things about sexting is that there are so many Free Sexting Sites around these days. This means that you can connect with someone on an intimate level without having to give them your telephone number, which allows for greater discretion.

So, if you choose the right words, they can lead you to to your next orgasm.

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