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Lovely 2.0 Couples Ring – Review
When I received this couple’s ring from Our Lovely, I was so excited about sharing the experience with my current squeeze. It just so happens that he’s a commitment-phobe like me and he is also a cock ring virgin. I have tried several others, men and cock rings, but what makes this one stand out (pun intended) is its pleasing shape and the fact that it has an App. Although I am well capable of reaching orgasm during penetration, purely from vaginal stimulation alone, I was looking forward to enjoying clitoral pulsations as well. This would make for a doubly delightful sexperience and be the first App-controlled cock ring that I have ever tried.
Playtime for Adults – An Erotic Board Game – Review
Playtime for adults is an exciting board game for couples or liberal groups of up to four people. It’s a fun exploration of intimacy and a seduction tool for couples. It permits you to enjoy each other’s bodies, indulge in extended and varied foreplay activities and break your usual sexual routine. There are hundreds of erotic outcomes and it will definitely keep you up all night.
Sheets of San Francisco – Fluidproof Bed Sheets – Review
When I received these fluidproof sheets, I immediately thought about how it might enhance my massage/foreplay sessions. I’ve never once had to lie in a wet patch as I’m religious about the use of condoms. Religion and condoms don’t usually belong in the same sentence, of course, but I do like to get messy.
I even used to get a thrill from a bit of light ‘sploshing’. But, ever since I’ve turned vegan, the thought of animal products coming into contact with my naked skin is the very opposite of orgasmic. Vegan ‘sploshing’ could be a viable prospect one day, I hope. I must confess that it doesn’t feature prominently on my ‘bucket list’ of fantasies that I want to translate into reality, though.
Online STD Testing
If you’re in the US, take a look at www.STDCheck.com It’s a discreet online STD testing service.
HOW IT WORKS:
Step 1: Online or by phone. Choose from a 10-Test Panel or individual tests.
Step 2: With over 4,500 testing centres nationwide, there’s bound to be one near you. The testing process only takes a few minutes.
Step 3: Test results are emailed to you within 1-2 days.
Doxy Number 3 with Nexus Attachments – Review
Recently, I had the good fortune to try out Doxy number 3 with a couple of attachments from Nexus that provide even more potential for pleasure.
Doxy number 3 isn’t just another plug-in wand massager; it’s more like a power station! It definitely lives up to its claim of being the world’s most powerful plug-in wand massager. Doxy number 3 is quite clearly in a league of its own.
My First Time in a Sex Shop
I’ll never forget the first time I set foot in a sex shop. I was a university student and I was looking for a special something to spice up my sex life with my then boyfriend. There was a sex shop very close to campus that everyone knew about, but hardly anyone had actually been to.
I often walked past it on my way to the city centre. The pointless and provocative lingerie on the mannequins in the window display would always catch my attention. I wondered what more there might be behind closed doors. There was absolutely no indication from the street.
One day, my curiosity got the better of me and I convinced my best friend to go there with me. We were giggly and nervous as we approached the big metallic door. Once we pushed it open, we discovered a whole new world.
Horoscope by Bijoux Indiscrets – Review
When I saw that Bijoux Indiscrets had created a horoscope kit, I smiled to myself as I remembered my spiritual twin and our perfectly matched Gemini sex.
The Horoscope collection comprises 12 kits, one for each star sign. They are presented in a stylish triangular box, which is ideal as a special, personalised, gift for her, whoever she may be. Each collection contains a gemstone, a clitoral balm and a battery-operated finger vibrator. Thankfully, the battery is included.
Each star sign has its own, specific, gemstone and each element (Air, water, fire, earth) has its own flavour of warming clitoral balm.
The finger vibrator is the same in all the kits. It has 10 different vibration settings.
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Reggie by Ridmii designed by Svakom – Review
When I received Reggie from Ridmii by Svakom, I knew it would be the perfect accessory for our frisking game. The sheer anticipation of the interrogation, body-search and inevitable discovery of the toy inside my vagina is enough to make me throb just by thinking about it.
Reggie is a remote-controlled vibrating bullet, It’s worn inside the vagina and is ideal for G spot stimulation and foreplay with a partner. The remote control works at a distance of up to 32 feet and it has 7 different vibration modes.
Womanizer Liberty Review
Liberty is Womanizer’s latest offering. I must confess that I was fortunate enough to be given one of them the night before the official launch took place. I wasted no time in putting it to the test in my hotel room.
It fits perfectly into your hand and it features a magnetic lid; which is ideal for hygiene and discretion. Liberty would seem to be the ultimate travel companion. Wherever you are, there are 6 different levels of intensity to choose from.
Khali from Bellesa – Review
Khali is an elegant rabbit vibrator from Bellesa. When I first saw an image of it online, I was intrigued by its curved shaft; it seemed ideally shaped for high-quality G spot stimulation. I also thought it would be ideal as a visual ingredient for one of my ongoing orgasmic breakfast posts. It does look good enough to eat. Its rippled shaft provides extra internal stimulation where it really counts and the distinctive rabbit ears provide intense clitoral stimulation.
Flirty & Sassy from the Pillow Talk range from BMS Factory – Review
Earlier this month, I had the privilege of dropping by the BMS Factory booth at EroFame. I distinctly recall marvelling at their Pillow Talk range and then thinking to myself: ‘I have that pleasure to look forward to when I get home.’
Flirty and Sassy were already in my ‘in-tray’ of sex toy boxes waiting to be tested and reviewed under the strict conditions of my Sex Toy Laboratory. I was intrigued by their soft feminine colours and bling button, as they dazzle with Swarovski crystal.
Gbulb from Gvibe – Review
And then the Goddess said: Let there be light! She switched the Gbulb on and, instead of illuminating, it vibrated. ‘F**k the light, let there be orgasms instead’ she exclaimed and proceeded to stimulate her throbbing clitoris with Gbulb.
Dalia from Desirables – Review
I’ve tested a fair few porcelain dildos in my time, and I have to confess that Dalia from Desirables is by far the best. Some of the previous ones have been hollow and more suited to external temperature play shenanigans with a willing partner. This one, on the other hand, is solid and feels much safer for penetration than others that I’ve tried.
Zeus from Pomello – Review for Gadgets with Benefits
All of those conventional pleasures are readily available with a standard rabbit vibrator. An even better offering can be found by exploring Zeus from Pomello; it comes packaged with a free set of Kegel balls. Zeus has a pleasing, ergonomic, shape that was designed by a certified OBGYN. It has 2 motors – one for the clitoris and another located in the shaft. They can be controlled individually and supply up to 81 different vibration combinations. One thing I love about individual controls is that I can enjoy one of the motors on a continuous mode and the other one with either waves or pulsating vibrations. Mmm.
Le Wand Petite – Review
I haven’t stopped using the Le Wand Petite since I unboxed it earlier this week. I’ve been using it every night before bed and every morning when I wake up at the crack of dawn. It’s proving itself to be the perfect end – and beginning – to my Autumn days. It goes without saying that I’ll still be using it even after this review has been completed. It has 10 vibration settings and 6 levels of intensity, it has a flexible neck and a travel lock function.
Touch from Swan Solo – Review
Touch by Swan Solo is a clear example of how the rabbit vibrator has developed. What really intrigues me about this sex toy is that the clitoral competent is almost more significant than the vaginal element. Size is not as important as people might think. The shaft is wide at the base and then is narrow and pointy at the tip, allowing for precise G spot stimulation. The clitorial arm is incredibly flexible so the toy will adapt women of all anatomies. I researched the clitoral – vaginal distance in women and toys a few years ago. Given that this distance varies in all toys and women, it’s essential that these elements can adapt to satisfy different anatomies
Sex Toys from YomeGarden Review
Two recent inclusions to the expanding world of my orgasmic breakfasts have been sourced from Yome Garden. Their vivid pink colour, is reminiscent of an exotic fruit and their shapes make them seem almost good enough to eat.
Womanizer Classic – Review
It wasn’t so long ago that the first Womanizer revolutionised the sex toy sector. During those ‘what’s your favourite sex toy?’ chats with other women in the personal pleasure industry, it was often cited as the best. They were referring to its amazing ability to use air-pressure to provoke fast, intense orgasms.
The first Womanizer wasn’t perfect though. It looked a little like an ear thermometer. But, hey, no one was actually looking at it during a session of self-pleasure. It also made too much noise. Excessive sex toy volume can be seriously off-putting if you use it with a partner. But – more importantly – you can’t use it if you’re living in a shared apartment or with your parents and not have to worry about the noise. The first Womanizer wasn’t waterproof either, so you couldn’t enjoy it in the bath or shower.
Uberrime Dildos Review
When I saw Uberrime dildos on social media, I was in awe of how strikingly beautiful they were. I must admit that I usually find the majority of realistic dildos come off as quite vulgar and lewd but the celebration of colours in these dildos makes them seem beautiful, fascinating and collectable.
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