In BDSM, a top or dominant is the partner in a BDSM relationship or scene who takes the active or controlling role over that of the bottom or submissive partner. Domination means being able to extract excitement from the pleasure you give to a submissive by every word you speak and every gesture you make no matter how trivial. That enjoyment only increases if a submissive offers unqualified and quantifiable acts of worship whenever ordered to do so. There are three variables at work in a dominant’s connection to their submissive and the formers fetishistic pleasure relies upon each of them being fulfilled to the letter: Firstly, for dominants continual, high-quality, worship from a submissive represents a depth of adoration from another individual that simply cannot be found anywhere else. Secondly, in setting tasks and organising duties for an eager submissive outside of the controlling environment of their BDSM relationship, the dominant understands that the submissive derives nothing but pure fetishistic pleasure themselves from the distance application of their adoration. Lastly, dominants have the final word when it comes to giving rewards to obedient submissives or administering punishments to rebellious ones and this system has a fetishistic significance all of its own.
The Dangers of Cybersex

The Dangers of Cybersex

When it comes to sex in the real world, there are always condoms. But, how can we protect ourselves during a cybersex session? It’s quite true that cybersex doesn't expose you to the risk of sexually transmitted infections, but there are specific dangers inherent. The most obvious one is that our 'private' chat is nothing of the kind.

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

In some BDSM kits, the feather ticklers that are included aren't fit for purpose; they supply a bit of relaxing fun for someone who's on the receiving end but that's all. If you want to tickle someone properly then a different kind of equipment is worth considering. Real enthusiasts of tickling do without mundane feathers or little pieces of coloured fluff. They know precisely which tickle fetish toys will yield the desired results. In fact, Mother Nature has amply provided us with a wonderful variety of organic options.

The Appeal of Wrinkled Soles (Foot Fetish)

The Appeal of Wrinkled Soles (Foot Fetish)

For most people wrinkles are an inevitable, if highly unwelcome, fact of getting older. Our increasingly image-conscious society is governed by the impossibly youthful standards set by popular culture. When it comes to foot fetish, it's a different story. Some enthusiasts get off on wrinkled soles. As a result of the correct application of expert tickling, the foot can tense up.Toe-curling can follow and the soft sole can ripple prettily as a consequence.

Holey Hosiery!

Holey Hosiery!

Putting hosiery on properly requires delicacy and patience. Special care must always be taken with the thin material to avoid it ripping open accidently. There are things you can do to limit the possibility of damage, of course. Sometimes, no matter how careful you are, those precautions let you down. Getting a ladder in your tights is never less than frustrating

The Day I Masturbated for Science

The Day I Masturbated for Science

"If you ever get a chance to test my orgasm under laboratory conditions, let me know" I told the scientist Pere Estupinyà when I first met him. I had just watched a TV documentary about sex in which a research team had observed and documented the physiological changes that occured to a couple when they had sexual intercourse. It fed my curiosity about my own responses during climax.

Fulfilling My Foot Fetish Model Responsibilities

Fulfilling My Foot Fetish Model Responsibilities

Being a foot fetish model is not just about pointing my toes, curving my arches and flaunting my soles. I've discovered that it means much more than that. As time goes on, my responsibilities towards my foot fetish fans only seem to increase. Foot fetishists have needs and they are very articulate when they want to express them. Some of them even make specific requests when it comes to provocative foot imagery that I could explore.

Searching for a Sole-Mate

Searching for a Sole-Mate

My soles hare the most sensitive part of my feet by far. They also represent the area that receives the most attention from my foot fans. If I were to accept each and every one of their offers to lick and suck my soles I know for certain that when I tried to stand up, the volume of saliva would send me sliding across the floor.