Bondage is the art of restraining someone or tying them up in some way that induces intense feelings of sexual gratification for both parties in opposite ways. It can be as simple as tying a simple knot or as sophisticated as Shibari or Japanese rope bondage. The person being tied up can relax and allow the person doing the tying to provide pleasure for them, which in this case is related to feelings of helplessness and lack of free-will. The individual doing the tying up derives an equal and opposite enjoyment from their own feelings of empowerment. Power, in this context of discipline for the sake of arousal, must not be abused. It will never become an issue as long as both partners approach bondage games in an atmosphere of mutual trust. Being tied up by someone you trust implicitly allows you to feel protected and cherished in a way that can't be experienced at any other time. Tying someone up, on the other hand, makes you feel trusted and needed by them in return. It is taken for granted that people in high powered jobs like these kind of sexual games, because they are able to let someone else take control so that they can lose control. It is also fair to say that it is usually imaginative people who enjoy these games, because they are better able to get lost inside them. Items that can be used for restraints can include ropes, scarves, neck-ties, ribbons, underwear or hosiery.
Enter the MAZE – Vegan Leather by Bijoux Indiscrets

Enter the MAZE – Vegan Leather by Bijoux Indiscrets

Can you be spiritual and kinky? The MAZE collection from Bijoux indiscrets allows me to be just that. “Exciting paths that unveil secret directions with one true end: finding your true self”  the packaging reads. This philosophy certainly conforms with my current spiritual journey. I’m surrendering to the universe and seeing where it chooses to take me. It will lead me, hopefully, into the arms of someone who is as blissed-out and kinky as I am.

High Heel Fetish

High Heel Fetish

I have always envied women who are able to walk easily and elegantly in high heels without falling over. Sadly, I do not have as much luck as they do. It is very difficult for me to find shoes that combine sex appeal with comfort. The few times that I have gone out wearing high heels have ended up the same way and bruises are something that are never thought of as sexy. Because of my clumsiness, I only wear heels for photo sessions and sex sessions.

Shoe Dangling Fetish

Shoe Dangling Fetish

Shoe dangling can appeal to shoe fetishists, foot fetishists or both at the same time. I do wonder if the thrill that shoe dangling fetishists experience when a woman dangles her high heel shoes is the same If her balancing ability isn't up to scratch, and the shoe falls to the ground suddenly and unintentionally, is it a turn on? Perhaps it's the anticipation of the shoe dropping, and not the event itself, that causes so much arousal?