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Japanese Sex Toys – Mizu Temari from Iroha by Tenga
I thought I had seen it all as far as sex toys are concerned. I have working with adult novelty brands and erotic boutiques all over the world for several years now. However, when I visited Kanojo Toys, an online shop from Japan, I couldn’t believe the things that I...
GJack 2 from GVibe – Sex Toy Review by Venus O’Hara
Just looking at GJack 2 makes me salivate. It reminds me of whipped ice cream. I used to love licking the cold cream on a hot summer’s day and noticing the contrast of temperatures in my mouth. Now, as a vegan, I no longer crave or desire whipped ice cream and I...
Satisfyer Plugs – Sex Toy Review
I must admit that my anal sex toy experiences have been very limited. In fact, I managed to avoid anal toys completely during the first five years of my career as a professional sex toy tester. The truth is that I just wasn’t intrigued about anal sexplorations. But...
Satisfyer Men Vibration – Sex Toy Review
“What about sex toys for men?” I’ve been asked this question many times. While it’s true that women have much more choice when it comes to adult novelties, the male sex toy category is growing fast. I have often wondered if vibration can stimulate the penis like it...
Grabbit from GVibe Sex Toy Review
They say that 3 is the magic number. However, when applied to sex, I’m not so sure. The first thing that comes to mind is a threesome. While they can no doubt be highly enjoyable, according to my experience, three is a crowd and in most cases, I think I might be too...
Moxie We-Vibe Wearable Remote / App Controlled External Stimulator Sex Toy Review
The least orgasmic part of my job as a professional sex toy tester has to be the deliveries. I have to wait at home all day not knowing when the package will arrive. If I happen to pop out for just five minutes, as Murphy’s law would have it, that’s precisely when the...
Mister Rabbit – Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
The G spot gets way more publicity than the A spot and I have no idea why that is. Here’s a quick definition from Wikipedia: “The anterior fornix erogenous zone (also known as the AFE zone, AFE, A-spot, epicentre, deep spot or second G-spot) is reportedly a female...
Sex Toy Review My Bunny a Thrusting Rabbit from My Toys
There seems to be some doubt about the existence of the G spot. I remember when I received a professional G spot massage a few years ago. The masseur in question not only believes that it exists but he even swears that the G spot is like the feminine hard drive that...
Satisfyer Pro Traveler – Sex Toy Review
I’ve been bitten by the travel bug. All I want to do is travel. I have a good friend who is a travel blogger and we influence each other. I give her free sex toys and she inspires me to travel. Aside from the orgasms, one of the best things about my job as a...
Master from Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
‘Please don’t look down. I have a really small c**k and I’m really ashamed…’ Naturally, I couldn’t resist the temptation and I looked down immediately. I couldn’t quite believe what I was seeing before my eyes… Needless to say, I had never seen anything like it in my...
LELO Gigi 2 Sex Toy Review for HotCherry.co
If I received a dollar for every time a guy writes to me seeking reassurance for his penis size preoccupations, I would probably be a millionaire. Whenever this happens, I always point out (pun intended) that hardness is more important than cms. At least, that is how...
Pan T Vibe – A Wearable, Remote Control Sex Toy by Adrien Lastic
I adore wearing a sex toy in public. I love having a secret. Although I am far too lazy to do this on a regular basis, I have found that doing so from time to time can make it even more special and memorable. What makes it even more thrilling is when a partner has...
Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples – Sex Toy Review
‘Don’t you have any new sex toys you need to test?’ My lover asked me the other day when he came over to my place for lunch. ‘Let me think…’ I said and walked over to my ‘incoming’ box in my lounge. I rummaged around and smiled to myself when I found Satisfyer Pro 4...
Womanizer DUO – Sex Toy Review
‘When did you know that you had ‘made it’? Oprah Winfrey asked J.K. Rowling, author of the Harry Potter books in an exclusive interview. ‘When I no longer had to choose between two things, because I could have them both,’ she answered. I was so inspired when I heard...
Magic Bunny from Satisfyer Vibes Sex Toy Review
‘Don’t you ever get sick of your toys? If you let me go down on you, you would forget about them soon enough. Nothing beats my tongue and I would go down on you for hours…’ I almost felt a twitch when he mentioned his enthusiasm for giving oral sex. I absolutely love...
Satisfyer Pro G Spot Rabbit – Sex Toy Review
I first received this sex toy at the beginning of 2018. When I opened the package, I was surprised to discover that I had also been sent some spare ones to give away. Needless to say, I was thrilled to be able to gift some of my best female friends with orgasms....
Remote Control Vibrating Kegel Balls from Amazon
I think it’s fair to say that I know quite a lot about sex toys. I have been a professional sex toy tester since 2013 and a regular user since 2006. But no matter how much you know about a given subject, there will always be someone who knows more than you do....
The Popularity of Anime Sex Dolls
Maybe you're a fan of anime, or you just think that girls with big eyes and brightly colored hair are attractive. No matter your stance, there's no denying that anime sex dolls are highly popular because they let you finally be with one of those cute and sexy anime...
Petting Hippo from Satisfyer Vibes Sex Toy Review
I absolutely love it when a guy tries to inhale my Venusian aroma just before going down on me. Unfortunately, we have been taught that our smell is bad. I’m talking about the very direct fish jokes that we had to endure at high school as well as the subliminal...
The Importance of Sex Toy Education
As a professional sex toy tester, my job is much more than just testing, reviewing and recommending sex toys. It’s also about encouraging people to indulge in self-love sessions and get to know their bodies better. I believe that sex toy education and sexual...