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Satisfyer Pro G Spot Rabbit – Sex Toy Review
I first received this sex toy at the beginning of 2018. When I opened the package, I was surprised to discover that I had also been sent some spare ones to give away. Needless to say, I was thrilled to be able to gift some of my best female friends with orgasms....
Remote Control Vibrating Kegel Balls from Amazon
I think it’s fair to say that I know quite a lot about sex toys. I have been a professional sex toy tester since 2013 and a regular user since 2006. But no matter how much you know about a given subject, there will always be someone who knows more than you do....
The Popularity of Anime Sex Dolls
Maybe you're a fan of anime, or you just think that girls with big eyes and brightly colored hair are attractive. No matter your stance, there's no denying that anime sex dolls are highly popular because they let you finally be with one of those cute and sexy anime...
Petting Hippo from Satisfyer Vibes Sex Toy Review
I absolutely love it when a guy tries to inhale my Venusian aroma just before going down on me. Unfortunately, we have been taught that our smell is bad. I’m talking about the very direct fish jokes that we had to endure at high school as well as the subliminal...
The Importance of Sex Toy Education
As a professional sex toy tester, my job is much more than just testing, reviewing and recommending sex toys. It’s also about encouraging people to indulge in self-love sessions and get to know their bodies better. I believe that sex toy education and sexual...
Satisfyer Pro Penguin – My Best Dressed Sex Toy – Review
If only all my lovers were this well-dressed for sex! I’m a big fan of getting dressed up for sex. I remember last summer, I used to go around to my lover’s house wearing the most scandalous and pointless lingerie ever. I’m talking crotchless bodystockings,...
Fun Function – Bunny Funny Collection – 4 Moving Rabbit Sex Toys – Review
There's something ever so intriguing about a sex toy that moves. When you look at it, you can't help but imagine what it might feel like against your most intimate parts. At least, that's what happens to me. When I saw these four sex toys from Fun Function moving at...
How Tantric Massage Can Help Your Man Last Longer in Bed
Hi! My name is Erica and I’m an expert in the art of tantra and also a writer at London based tantric massage agency - Karma Tantric. The art of tantric massage is a stimulating and sensuous practice that can ignite the passion back into your bedroom. A tantric...
Charming Smile by Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
There is nothing quite like an orgasm to put a smile on my face. When I’m not having orgasms or raising orgasmic awareness through my work, my mission is to share my good energy with the world through my smile. Let me explain. I make a conscious effort to smile at...
Sensual Touch Wand Massager from Adam & Eve
Just the other day I saw an incredible documentary about female orgasm. It focussed specifically on 'super orgasm’. As a professional orgasm activist, I was keen to find out what exactly they meant by ‘super orgasm’ and how I could have one. It turns out that they...
Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration – Sex Toy Review
This sex toy was a game changer for me. I had heard glowing reports of the Satisfyer from many women in the pleasure industry, but I still preferred conventional vibrators. This is because I found that the pressure wave stimulation on my clitoris to be a little too...
Yummy Sunshine from Satisfyer Vibes
After living in Spain for many years, it's safe to say that I can't stand the cold. Now that winter has come to an end, I must say that I'm so grateful for all the winter sun that I have enjoyed this year. Lately, my morning routine consists of waking up naturally...
Loretta Rechargeable Massage Wand from Supor Adult Product
A couple of weeks ago, I asked one of my friends how many sex toys she had. She is one of my best friends and often when I receive more than one given sex toy, she gets the spare one. She knows that she is privileged to have a friend like me and I am only too happy to...
Big Reveal: 3 Ways to Tell your Partner about Your Fetish
As you know, there’s no shame in any sexual act you enjoy taking part in. But when it comes to telling your partner about your bedroom desires, it’s not always an easy thing to do. Not all of us are fetish singles; some of us are in long-term relationships with...
Liv 2 from LELO – Sex Toy Review
Liv 2 from LELO - Sex Toy Review After acquiring and testing hundreds of sex toys, I'm always impressed by how my LELO toys are able to stand the test of time. And it's not as if I haven't used them and they've just been gathering dust in their respective boxes. Not...
Sex Toy Review: Satifyer Pro Deluxe Next Generation
One of the hardest things about being a sex toy tester is having to test toys when you're not quite in the mood for an orgasm. Fortunately, over the years that I have been doing this job, I have developed some techniques to motivate me in times like these. When I was...
M3 – A wearable G spot stimulator from Feelingirl
I thought I'd seen it all as far as sex toys are concerned. But I have never seen anything quite like M3 from Feelingirl before. It's a wearable, remote controlled G spot and clitoral stimulator with an optional heating function and voice control! The clitoral element...
Women’s Day – Confessions of an Unapologetic Orgasm Activist
Ten years ago, I set up this blog with the intention of sharing my vision of sexuality with the world. Despite all the information and sexual content that was already available online, I didn’t feel as though my own sexuality was being represented so I wanted to do...
Quit Your Job – Become a Sex Toy Tester
Last year, I collaborated with a British production company to film a video that was part of a series about unusual jobs. As a professional sex toy tester based in Barcelona, Spain, I definitely qualified. During the filming, I answered all the typical...
2 Sex Toys on Amazon
Should I have an orgasm? I wondered to myself yesterday morning. I had woken up incredibly aroused remembering the hot sex from the night before with my other half. I've been trying to teach him that less is more where sex is concerned - but he isn't convinced - even...
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