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Yummy Sunshine from Satisfyer Vibes
After living in Spain for many years, it's safe to say that I can't stand the cold. Now that winter has come to an end, I must say that I'm so grateful for all the winter sun that I have enjoyed this year. Lately, my morning routine consists of waking up naturally...
Loretta Rechargeable Massage Wand from Supor Adult Product
A couple of weeks ago, I asked one of my friends how many sex toys she had. She is one of my best friends and often when I receive more than one given sex toy, she gets the spare one. She knows that she is privileged to have a friend like me and I am only too happy to...
Big Reveal: 3 Ways to Tell your Partner about Your Fetish
As you know, there’s no shame in any sexual act you enjoy taking part in. But when it comes to telling your partner about your bedroom desires, it’s not always an easy thing to do. Not all of us are fetish singles; some of us are in long-term relationships with...
Liv 2 from LELO – Sex Toy Review
Liv 2 from LELO - Sex Toy Review After acquiring and testing hundreds of sex toys, I'm always impressed by how my LELO toys are able to stand the test of time. And it's not as if I haven't used them and they've just been gathering dust in their respective boxes. Not...
Sex Toy Review: Satifyer Pro Deluxe Next Generation
One of the hardest things about being a sex toy tester is having to test toys when you're not quite in the mood for an orgasm. Fortunately, over the years that I have been doing this job, I have developed some techniques to motivate me in times like these. When I was...
M3 – A wearable G spot stimulator from Feelingirl
I thought I'd seen it all as far as sex toys are concerned. But I have never seen anything quite like M3 from Feelingirl before. It's a wearable, remote controlled G spot and clitoral stimulator with an optional heating function and voice control! The clitoral element...
Women’s Day – Confessions of an Unapologetic Orgasm Activist
Ten years ago, I set up this blog with the intention of sharing my vision of sexuality with the world. Despite all the information and sexual content that was already available online, I didn’t feel as though my own sexuality was being represented so I wanted to do...
Quit Your Job – Become a Sex Toy Tester
Last year, I collaborated with a British production company to film a video that was part of a series about unusual jobs. As a professional sex toy tester based in Barcelona, Spain, I definitely qualified. During the filming, I answered all the typical...
2 Sex Toys on Amazon
Should I have an orgasm? I wondered to myself yesterday morning. I had woken up incredibly aroused remembering the hot sex from the night before with my other half. I've been trying to teach him that less is more where sex is concerned - but he isn't convinced - even...
Power Flower – Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
Say it with flowers... I remember years ago when I was working in the export department of a printer. There was a woman who worked in the accounts department who I hated and the feeling was mutual. Some days, she would arrive at the office in a terrible mood and...
Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation
I first tried the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation a couple of years ago. Although I was already familiar with its specifications and its virtues, when I tried it this time, I couldn’t help but think about how much my self-love techniques had changed over the last...
4 Sex Toy Reviews
Could I review 4 sex toys in a day? Fondlove, an online sex toy retailer, wanted to know. I said 'yes', of course. Even though I accepted the challenge, I did wonder if I going to able to complete it, or more specifically: was my body going to be able to handle all...
Sex Dating and Sexting Sites – Your Next Orgasm
Words matter. Especially when it comes to seduction. I used to love going on dating sites and apps whenever I had gone for an extended period without sex. It often seemed easier to meet my potential lovers this way, as opposed to going out to a bar or to a nightclub....
Satisfyer Balls Review – Orgasm Training
The Universe might not always give you what you want. But it will give you what you need. When I saw that these Satisfyer Balls were next in my 'incoming sex toys for review' box, I was thrilled. They were just what I needed. I have a confession to make. I...
Tongue Vibrator from Feelingirl – Review
There is nothing like a decent cunnilingus session from an enthusiastic and intuitive lover. It's not just down to technique; it has to be from someone who genuinely enjoys putting all the hard work in. As much as I adore cunnilingus, I only started having orgasms...
Adrien Lastic Touché – Wearable Sextech
I cannot deny that sex toy testing has made me lazy as far as conventional masturbation is concerned. Instead of touching myself, I just reach for a vibrator instead. Thanks to my ever-growing sex toy collection, my orgasmic needs can be met in no time at all. Not...
Satisfyer 2 Sex Toy Review
The other morning, I took a trip down memory lane. I revisited my hairdresser from ten years ago in the Born district of Barcelona. I used to go there when I worked in real estate. Before I went to get my trim, I wandered the streets and reminisced about those times....
We-Vibe anniversary Collection Review
I have such fond memories of Valentine's Day as a singleton growing up in the UK. I used to love sending and receiving anonymous cards to my love interests at the time. Some were genuine and others were a complete joke. I loved the fact that Valentine's Day wasn’t...
Satisfyer Pro 3 Vibration Review
I’ve been sleeping terribly lately. I wake up between 3 and 5 am every night. According to my research on Google, waking up at this time is quite typical during a kundalini awakening. Although it’s exhausting, I do love those rare moments of silence during the early...
Manta from Fun Factory a Vibrating Stroker – Review for PeepShow Toys
‘Stop, if not I think I’m going to come…’ This is what my lover told me when I slid Manta from Fun Factory up and down his length a couple of times. And that wasn’t even part of the official sex toy test. I just got it out to show him and he didn’t quite understand...
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