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Master from Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
‘Please don’t look down. I have a really small c**k and I’m really ashamed…’ Naturally, I couldn’t resist the temptation and I looked down immediately. I couldn’t quite believe what I was seeing before my eyes… Needless to say, I had never seen anything like it in my...
LELO Gigi 2 Sex Toy Review for HotCherry.co
If I received a dollar for every time a guy writes to me seeking reassurance for his penis size preoccupations, I would probably be a millionaire. Whenever this happens, I always point out (pun intended) that hardness is more important than cms. At least, that is how...
Pan T Vibe – A Wearable, Remote Control Sex Toy by Adrien Lastic
I adore wearing a sex toy in public. I love having a secret. Although I am far too lazy to do this on a regular basis, I have found that doing so from time to time can make it even more special and memorable. What makes it even more thrilling is when a partner has...
Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples – Sex Toy Review
‘Don’t you have any new sex toys you need to test?’ My lover asked me the other day when he came over to my place for lunch. ‘Let me think…’ I said and walked over to my ‘incoming’ box in my lounge. I rummaged around and smiled to myself when I found Satisfyer Pro 4...
Womanizer DUO – Sex Toy Review
‘When did you know that you had ‘made it’? Oprah Winfrey asked J.K. Rowling, author of the Harry Potter books in an exclusive interview. ‘When I no longer had to choose between two things, because I could have them both,’ she answered. I was so inspired when I heard...
Magic Bunny from Satisfyer Vibes Sex Toy Review
‘Don’t you ever get sick of your toys? If you let me go down on you, you would forget about them soon enough. Nothing beats my tongue and I would go down on you for hours…’ I almost felt a twitch when he mentioned his enthusiasm for giving oral sex. I absolutely love...
Satisfyer Pro G Spot Rabbit – Sex Toy Review
I first received this sex toy at the beginning of 2018. When I opened the package, I was surprised to discover that I had also been sent some spare ones to give away. Needless to say, I was thrilled to be able to gift some of my best female friends with orgasms....
Remote Control Vibrating Kegel Balls from Amazon
I think it’s fair to say that I know quite a lot about sex toys. I have been a professional sex toy tester since 2013 and a regular user since 2006. But no matter how much you know about a given subject, there will always be someone who knows more than you do....
The Popularity of Anime Sex Dolls
Maybe you're a fan of anime, or you just think that girls with big eyes and brightly colored hair are attractive. No matter your stance, there's no denying that anime sex dolls are highly popular because they let you finally be with one of those cute and sexy anime...
Petting Hippo from Satisfyer Vibes Sex Toy Review
I absolutely love it when a guy tries to inhale my Venusian aroma just before going down on me. Unfortunately, we have been taught that our smell is bad. I’m talking about the very direct fish jokes that we had to endure at high school as well as the subliminal...
The Importance of Sex Toy Education
As a professional sex toy tester, my job is much more than just testing, reviewing and recommending sex toys. It’s also about encouraging people to indulge in self-love sessions and get to know their bodies better. I believe that sex toy education and sexual...
Satisfyer Pro Penguin – My Best Dressed Sex Toy – Review
If only all my lovers were this well-dressed for sex! I’m a big fan of getting dressed up for sex. I remember last summer, I used to go around to my lover’s house wearing the most scandalous and pointless lingerie ever. I’m talking crotchless bodystockings,...
Fun Function – Bunny Funny Collection – 4 Moving Rabbit Sex Toys – Review
There's something ever so intriguing about a sex toy that moves. When you look at it, you can't help but imagine what it might feel like against your most intimate parts. At least, that's what happens to me. When I saw these four sex toys from Fun Function moving at...
How Tantric Massage Can Help Your Man Last Longer in Bed
Hi! My name is Erica and I’m an expert in the art of tantra and also a writer at London based tantric massage agency - Karma Tantric. The art of tantric massage is a stimulating and sensuous practice that can ignite the passion back into your bedroom. A tantric...
Charming Smile by Satisfyer Vibes – Sex Toy Review
There is nothing quite like an orgasm to put a smile on my face. When I’m not having orgasms or raising orgasmic awareness through my work, my mission is to share my good energy with the world through my smile. Let me explain. I make a conscious effort to smile at...
Sensual Touch Wand Massager from Adam & Eve
Just the other day I saw an incredible documentary about female orgasm. It focussed specifically on 'super orgasm’. As a professional orgasm activist, I was keen to find out what exactly they meant by ‘super orgasm’ and how I could have one. It turns out that they...
Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration – Sex Toy Review
This sex toy was a game changer for me. I had heard glowing reports of the Satisfyer from many women in the pleasure industry, but I still preferred conventional vibrators. This is because I found that the pressure wave stimulation on my clitoris to be a little too...
Yummy Sunshine from Satisfyer Vibes
After living in Spain for many years, it's safe to say that I can't stand the cold. Now that winter has come to an end, I must say that I'm so grateful for all the winter sun that I have enjoyed this year. Lately, my morning routine consists of waking up naturally...
Loretta Rechargeable Massage Wand from Supor Adult Product
A couple of weeks ago, I asked one of my friends how many sex toys she had. She is one of my best friends and often when I receive more than one given sex toy, she gets the spare one. She knows that she is privileged to have a friend like me and I am only too happy to...
Big Reveal: 3 Ways to Tell your Partner about Your Fetish
As you know, there’s no shame in any sexual act you enjoy taking part in. But when it comes to telling your partner about your bedroom desires, it’s not always an easy thing to do. Not all of us are fetish singles; some of us are in long-term relationships with...
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