Venus O'Hara - Artist - Author - Sexpert
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Lesbian porn isn’t the same as ‘porn for lesbians’ or ‘porn for bi women’. Lesbian porn is, without doubt, focused on the needs of the male spectator with its obsessive focus on close-up, gynaecological shots and surgically enhanced actresses with long, fake nails that look like claws. That detail in particular is a big no-no when it comes to sex between women. Another, typical feature is an overemphasis on the use of sex toys like dildos and harnesses. During my sapphic era, it would never have occurred to me to sit on a sofa and lick a dildo with another girl but that scenario is sadly typical in lesbian porn.
Stimulating the A spot is a highly efficient way to achieve orgasm because it doesn’t use much energy, doesn’t take very long and always results in an intense climax. It sounds wonderful, I know, but it’s not all good news. In my case, because of the effectiveness of my A spot, I failed to give my clitoris the time and attention it deserved for years. I believed that women were either clitoral or vaginal when it came to orgasms. I have now discovered, however, that I can reach climax either way, even though achieving a clitoral orgasm, in my case, requires me to put in much more time and effort.
Even though I consider myself to have a liberal mentality, the thought of having a professional tantric massage never arose. Now that I’ve had one, however, I’m so glad I did. I was dying to feel someone’s hands on me. But, I wanted to feel them in a way that you just don’t experience during a conventional massage. You can’t get that sensation during sex either, not unless you have a partner who is really into long foreplay sessions. Even during post-coital embraces I wish the hair stroking and nape caresses would last much, much longer.
Have you ever wondered what the sex toys of the future will be like? I have. I looked into my crystal ball and this is what I saw. I’m not sure what year it is, but I see that I have a few grey hairs and wrinkles. It’s a sunny morning and I wake up in my future house in the country.
Bespoke Foot Fetish Videos. I have recently decided to create exclusive video content for my Members Area. Due to popular demand, I will be focusing on foot fetish and will be producing short videos featuring: Shoe Dangling. Pedicures. Soles. Wrinkled Soles. Tip-Toes. Arches. Bondage. Foot Massage. Hosiery. Tickling and much more!
Some people believe that a selfie is only an expression of narcissism, but for me it can be much more than that. We live in a society obsessed with physical perfection and a culture that seems to be addicted to cosmetic surgery and PhotoShop. On the one hand, we are bombarded by advertising imagery on TV and in magazines that lie to us constantly and promote beauty ideals that are unachievable. On the other hand, when a media celebrity is ‘caught’ on the beach displaying a little cellulite, or carrying few extra kilos, they are ridiculed.
The more money you spend on something, the higher your expectations become. This philosophy can also be applied to the world of luxury sex toys. Usually ‘luxury’, in this context, means that it is rechargeable by USB, is made of a non-porous material such as soft medical-grade silicone, has powerful, yet silent, motors and features organic shapes. That is to say, that the less it looks like a real penis, the better.
The Sticky World of Lubricants: “Made with natural ingredients.” I read once in large letters on the packaging of lubricant from a brand that I won’t mention. After reading the list of ingredients, however, I discovered that apart from Aloe Vera extract, the remainder of the ingredients list consisted of substances with long and unpronounceable names. I doubted that they were natural.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Sex Toy Review
When I saw this sex toy, I knew I had to try it. Satisfyer Pro 2 looks a lot like Womanizer. Womanizer is a suction device that stimulates the clitoris. It has been very successful worldwide.
I know many women who say Womanizer is their favorite sex toy. Despite having tried the original, and the pro 500, I can’t say that it’s my favorite. Similarly, I can’t deny that it provides unique sensations.
Eros and Thanatos. I don’t want his pity. I want wild sex. All that matters is that I feel the blood running through my veins. I need to know that I am still very much alive despite the drab and depressing mood that I find myself in. I need to feel my heart beating, my breath accelerating and, above all, I have to feel the spasms of orgasm.
We work all year round dreaming about our holidays. For most of us it means a chance to escape the routine, stress and traffic jams. It’s a time to relax and enjoy spending quality time with our partners and the family. However, a new study by Victoria Milan, a contacts page for married people or couples, has found that summer holidays make us more open to the idea of having an affair.
“It’s not a glamorous look”, “you’ve totally lost your sex appeal” or “how disgusting!” These are just some of the comments I received after publishing photos of my hairy armpits on social media. Of course, there were others that were more positive.
I have to say that the negative comments didn’t surprise me in the slightest. The merest glimpse of a hairy armpit on a woman usually causes this reaction. It was something that I used to find unpleasant too.
Normally, being able to resist the temptation of one last drink, a cigar or a piece of chocolate makes you feel proud of yourself. This isn’t true, however, with sexual temptation. In this case, resisting a craving only generates the feeling of frustration. What normally happens is that the more you try to resist, the more desirable it is and the greater the temptation becomes.
We’ve spent over a year developing the O Venus. I’ve researched the clitoris extensively, especially the distance between the clitoris and the vagina. I’ve also consulted with gynaecologists about the design concept. It has not been an easy process. I was under a great deal of pressure to test a group of prototypes and give my feedback on them as soon as possible after they were delivered. That meant it was the most important test in my career as a professional sex toy tester. Fortunately, after sweating a lot, I’m delighted to confirm that I’m very happy with the end result.
It can take a lot of hard work to create a photo. A professional photo-shoot requires the skills of the model, the photographer, stylists, hairdressers and make-up artists. Then, afterwards, it’s taken for granted that the expertise of the retouchers will be needed to add more layers. I direct myself during my own sessions and I’d prefer to avoid adding those extra layers if I can help it. My intention is to reflect reality instead.
They say that it’s the thought that counts. This is especially true when it comes to erotic gifts. The thought process behind choosing the ideal erotic gift is often more elaborate and stimulating than for conventional presents. Erotic shopping doesn’t just spark imagination and desire. It also promotes greater complicity and intimacy as the purchase can often be enjoyed by the two of you. You can’t say the same about a piece of jewellery or a bunch of flowers.
According to my experience, condoms are like cigarettes: every man has his favorite brand. His preference might depend on comfort, sensitivity, or simply because a particular brand has never let him down. When I was studying at University, condoms were given away for free. We could drop by the medical center and pick up as many as we wanted. In addition, there were several different types and brands to choose from. I only realized how fortunate the situation was when I came to Spain and had to pay for them myself. The truth is I didn’t know they were so expensive. As a solution, I made my boyfriends buy them.
Moody – A Vibrator for Men or Women from Fun Factory. If you’re in the mood to stimulate your anus, G-spot or clitoris, Moody is the sex toy for you. It’s ideal for men and women. It adapts to each situation and mood. Its undulating surface stimulates your erogenous zones. The wide-based toy ensures comfort and safety in any position while stimulating the vagina or anus.
Downblouse is a variety of sexual fetishism or voyeurism. It’s based on the opportunity, provided by some types of women’s clothing, for men to peer down and enjoy watching their breasts unobtrusively. It might take the form of making unauthorised digital photographs down the open top of a female’s dress, blouse or other garment. The value of ‘downblousing’ imagery is increased, from the collector’s perspective, when those pictures of breasts or cleavages are obtained thanks to random chance.
For me there’s nothing better than having an authentic domestic god in my house. He’s a man who is tidy, is a good cook and who, above all, finds pleasure from serving a woman. I don’t just want one for the sake of convenience, or to enjoy the benefits of a tidy environment without having to lift a finger or to taste delicious food that I haven’t had to prepare for myself. Just the idea of domestic godliness is something that never fails to seduce me.
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