Feminism Vs Femdom

Feminism has got a bad name over the years for a variety of reasons. Mostly, in our hypersexual culture of eroticised imagery, it commits the cardinal sin of being a little unsexy. Feminism began as a movement based on the establishment of equality between the sexes. It has gone through many distinct phases since its beginnings and not all of them have been comfortable. At first, feminists wanted to be taken as seriously as men. To...

New Year, New Vibrator

Many people make New Year’s resolutions and a few even intend to keep them, for a while at least. I’m not a resolution person. Not at all. When I looked at my vibrator the other night, I thought about how reliable it had been and how much I’d enjoyed our time together over the last year. It was then I decided that having a new one to play with for 2012 was the best way to begin the New Year. If I start January with a...

Making the Most of your Unwanted Christmas Presents

I can always turn unwanted presents to my advantage. For me, the definition of an ideal present is one that you didn’t imagine that you wanted or needed. When you tear open its wrapping and look at it though, you love it instantly. Convincing someone to buy something that you want in a shop removes that surprise value and you appreciate it less. There’s a type of gift that always gets a sort of medium response from me when...

Motorbike Fetish

When I think of the motorbike fetish I remember the film Grease 2. The character of Stephanie, played by Michelle Pfeiffer, has a very specific vision of her ideal man. She dreams of a mysterious lone biker who appears from nowhere, displays his power and disappears into the night. I love it when a clean-cut English student, played by Maxwell Caulfield, plays into her fantasy, buys a bike and picks her up outside her house at night. He...

BDSM for Beginners

BDSM is a perfect festive treat for the Christmas holidays. That’s fine if you know what you’re doing. You might be new to BDSM. You and your partner might still want to use your time off together to try it out anyway. Here are my 10 Basic BDSM Terms for Beginners. BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. DOMINANT (also dom, domme): the one in charge. SUBMISSIVE (also sub) the...