Condoms turn me on, they really do. Can it be that I’m the only one who thinks this way?
For some men, the moment when they have to pause their amorous enthusiasm can be awkward. It might not surprise you when I admit that I relish that very same moment. I like to take the initiative and establish my complete control over him. Suddenly, the man relaxes and watches me as I take every care to make sure the condom is fitted on him properly.
I don’t tolerate the usual wealth of excuses that men deploy to avoid using condoms. Those tired justifications have been superceded by advances in latex technology which promote sensitivity, a greater appreciation of sexual health issues which place an equal amount of responsibility on both partners to protect against STIs and just plain commonsense when it comes to avoiding unplanned pregnancy. Condoms are sexy because I can put my rational concerns to one side and really let myself go.
I have a brand preference, of course. Doesn’t everybody? In my case I will always favour Durex Avanti. I know that you have to pay a little more but, in my opinion, they are worth every penny. They are made out of polyurethane instead of the traditional latex. Not only are they more resilient and have the added advantage of being thinner than other brands but they also transmit a greater percentage of body heat. With all these added extras, is it any surprise that I live by a simple sexual equation: No Condom=No Penetrative Sex.
There are some fetishistic uses for condoms as well. When I see a hard penis wearing coloured latex it seems as if it’s dressed up in bondage gear and ready for action. Some men prefer to masturbate while wearing a condom. This is what’s known as a “posh wank” and it can have a fetish thrill all of it own at the same time as cutting down on the time spent cleaning up afterwards.
I love condoms so much that I even use them with sex-toys when I am testing them professionally or using them at my leisure. Although sex-toy manufacturers underline the point that modern materials are suitable for “barebacking”, I still need to be convinced. A condom guarantees hygiene and covers-up that new sex-toy smell that puts me off sometimes.
I’m convinced that there must be some people out there love condoms just as much as I do.
Photos by Lourdes Ribas.
Latex by Madrubb
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