A “come shot” (or cum shot) is a slang term used to describe a person ejaculating (in film or video, or image in a pornographic magazine), usually onto a person or object.
The come shot has become such a common conclusion to scenes in mass-market porn that if a scene doesn’t end with an ejaculation sequence, viewers may believe that the actor was unable to climax or that the scene was cut. For male consumers of hardcore, “reality” is everything and the proof of the actor’s orgasm is the most important part of the movie.
In the real world, a blow-job that ends with a come shot on the woman’s face remains a powerful sexual fantasy for many men. The practice is still linked to fetishism and continues to be taboo amongst many women. For them, the act itself forces them to be submissive to their partner’s desires. For other women this couldn’t be further from the truth. In their eyes their ability to fulfil a man’s greatest sexual fantasy not only makes them feel powerful, essential and in control of his sexual responses but to duplicate a porn come shot with skill and confidence makes them excited and horny.
In western culture, male sexual fulfilment has become identified with orgasm and the male orgasm is the full stop at the end of the sentence. For women, however, a sudden male ejaculation limits the potential for their own sexual satisfaction. For me, it’s not an issue if a man produces a quick come shot or not but what really annoys me is that after they’ve ejaculated, most men forget that they still have fingers, lips and tongues. All of those things can be put to good use in making sure a woman isn’t left unsatisfied.
Men love blow jobs, that’s a fact. They love them more if they get to see their come being swallowed and enjoyed by a woman after they’ve ejaculated.Whether it’s better to spit or swallow is down to the preference of the woman involved, of course, but trust in a male partner and the experimental intimacy between lovers always goes a long way to making the second option more likely. My female friends agree that they are far more likely to swallow if there is an emotional connection to their partner.
For those women who are still reluctant to swallow their lover’s come but who don’t want to ruin his illusions of their agreement to it, there is a neat little trick, taught to me by another friend, that allows both partners to get what they want. Her trick is to hold her cheek between her fingers so it almost touches her bottom lip, stretching the skin so that when he comes she can let everything fall out suddenly. It must be advised that this can only work if he’s not watching. Having long hair always helps; she tells me.
The most extreme form of come shot has to be bukkake. The story of bukkake begins in ancient Japan. According to legend, it was the method by which an adulterous woman in a small village was punished. She would be taken to a cave, bound, and forced to kneel. There, all the village men would masturbate onto her face. In modern day Japan, bukkake lived on to become a popular porn genre in its own right, swiftly imitated and made popular in the U.S and other countries as well.
I know how satisfying it is to me personally to make someone come and I adore being the image that inspires a great many orgasms. I love being the muse of multiple come shots and it doesn’t matter if I know about them or not.
These photos are chosen from a set that I shot with Sebas Romero this summer.
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