I have been thinking about doing a Sploshing photo-shoot for a long time, at least a couple of years in fact. The “Wet and Messy” fetish has fascinated me for all of that time but I have never quite got around to exploring it properly. The thing is, Sploshing appeals to me more during the summer months. That is because having cold, sweet liquids and slimy edible goop dripped onto me, or thrown over me, seems like a more tolerable prospect when it is warmer. Nevertheless, two summers have gone by and nothing much happened. This summer is going to be very different. This week it was time to take decisive Sploshing action and, as luck would have it, the opportunity to have an obliging photographer on hand, to record the event, arose quite unexpectedly. What type of slime, gunk or slop would be available and appropriate for the session? I did not plan out the Sploshing session nor did I prepare a selection of sugary, gooey desserts in anticipation of it as I should have done. All I did was haul the refridgerator door open and hope that there might be something suitably cold, sticky and wet, waiting inside. Fortunately, I found a large tub of yoghurt (vegan of course) that I could mix with water and put to good Sploshing use. I imagined how it would feel as it trickled down my feet. No matter how prepared you think you are for being smeared, the sudden sensation of the […]
The fetish known as “Wet and messy” is also called “Sploshing”. This kink relates to the use of sticky drinks and gooey foodstuffs to cover and smear young women in a scenario that dresses them in bikinis, schoolgirl outfits and anything else that can be soaked easily. Elaborate staging for these vignettes-intended for specialist web-sites and magazines-is never necessary because it is the submission of the girl about to be “sploshed” that adds another dimension for the fetishist’s pleasure.
The model can display the ingredients and substances before the real action begins. The tension of sploshing rests in the build-up and anticipation of the first application of messiness on the neat and clean woman. Her active participation and subsequent reactions to the ruining of her outfit are key fetish points in the unfolding game. If the substances are warm, cold or a combination of temperatures then the moans, shrieks and shivers that accompany their use provide a direct link between the fetishist and the displaced sensations that are on display.
The featured girl becomes covered in ice cream, custard and similar foods that refer back to high points of juvenile interaction-like birthday parties. It is preferred if the featured ingredients are highly coloured, glistening and plentiful.
I knew that I needed something colourful to wear for the upcoming photo-shoot so I searched through my cupboards and draws and dug out the bathing suit that I had almost forgotten.It had a high-cut leg, which proved just how old it was since that style hadn’t been seen since I had left university. I knew that I would have to pair the suit up with a more contemporary item to hide its age so I found some almost-new bikini bottoms and found the look I wanted. I had been in the second year at uni and I knew that I would be spending the next academic year living and studying in France. The first thing on my wish list was a new bathing suit because I didn’t have one and I knew how much I needed it. I arranged an overdraft but to be able to use it I had to provide an itemised budget to justify the amount. I sat in front of the Bank manager as she read my list, saw the purchase from Top Shop and asked me whether a bathing suit could be called an essential. I said it was, made my case and got the money. Years later, in the kitchen of my apartment, I put the old bathing costume on and poured out-of-date tetrapak soups and bad tomato ketchup over myself to get into character. I went a bit mad then and turned the kitchen, and myself, into a total shambles. After a […]
Sploshing Warm-up – Venus O’Hara
When I was standing in my kitchen and planning this set I hadn’t yet worked with the photographer, Sebas Romero and I had no idea what sploshing was. I’ve always had a thing for mess and the way neat rooms can change their character completely when I make my mischief. I thought this when I opened a cupboard and found the forgotten food. It had been in there a long time. There was old tomato sauce, tetra-packs of stinking soup, ancient tubs of hard nesquik, powdery breadsticks and more. I couldn’t resist. It was time to indulge in my love of untidiness again, so I lined up all of my out-of-date goodies and knew what to do with them to make a set of provocative pictures. Sploshing or “wet and messy” fetish is all about seeing rebellious young women being smeared and splattered with gooey foodstuffs to ruin their clothes and wreck their make-up. When I think back to being covered in that old food I understand what the fetishists see in this kink; I had so much fun doing it. I’ll be shooting similar sets in the near future but to a more extreme level. After the shoot I was ashamed of the mess I made and I wondered, if anyone entered the kitchen without knocking, how I could possibly explain it to them. It took hours to clean up. Nowadays I know better and I’d wrap the whole room up in cling-film first. Enjoy! Venus O’Hara Photos by […]