The fetish for women dressed as schoolgirls is significant in Japan where a highly formal subculture has grown to cater to consumers of this imagery. Every country has its own variation, however and whichever culture is studied, the same preoccupations turn up time after time. The simple dresses, approved hosiery and sensible shoes that are so anonymous when viewed in a group tend to assume a much bigger fetishistic significance when seen worn by an individual.
The common fetishistic denominator is the need for the enthusiast to revisit the look and significance of the young women who might have been unattainable to him when he was studying at a boarding school or in a single-sex college. Forever craving their attention, the fetishist usually finds that the girls were more attracted to older boys and young men. This unrealised dream for the frustrated adult, becomes so significant that it remains with him into adulthood as a suppressed need and thwarted desire.
In living out these recurring fantasies, the uniform itself becomes the fetish device that represents sexual satisfaction and to observe it being worn and removed in individual pieces fulfills a profound lack in the enthusiast. Even grown women, dressed in school uniforms can provoke the same feelings of arousal in them time and time again.
A few years ago, when I was an English teacher, I recall giving a class called “The power of music”. It was a listening exercise in which an expert explained the link between music and emotions; for instance, the way classical music relaxes the listener. He went on to describe how Hollywood directors understand this link all too well.
Film music tells us how and what to feel and manipulates us emotionally. The saddest scene in a film is often...
The act of spanking consists of one partner striking the buttocks of another with a bare hand to cause temporary pain and erotic sensation. When an object is used instead of a hand, spanking becomes paddling, belting, caning, whipping, birching or hairbrushing depending on what is used.
Spanking, when used to develop a role-play scenario, becomes much more than just punishment.The intensity of feeling and the mutual understanding of the spanker and the...
I recently made my acting debut in the acclaimed short film “Love Me Like You Hate Me”, written and directed by Erika Lust, (Lust Films 2010). It is an arousing exploration of the seductive thrills of domination and the fear and excitement of submission in which I play seven characters.
Now, the film has been re-edited, re-scored and re-imagined to further emphasise its unusual ability to disturb and excite with its lurid and fetishistic imagery of...
After a tricky adolescence of puppy fat, acne and general growing pains, I began to discover my female powers. At eighteen I wanted to seduce the “unseducable” just to see how much girl power I really had. One significant male in a position of authority once told me to stop provoking him and that was like the girl in the Nabakov classic.
Coincidentally a few days later I was at a friend’s flat and I saw a classic Nabakov novel on his...