A few years ago I wouldn’t have been seen dead wearing a pair of high-waisted panties. They were seen as unfashionable even before the now iconic scene in the “Bridget Jone’s Diary” film. Bridget, played by Renée Zellweger, had been conflicted about her imminent date with the sleazy character played by Hugh Grant. Would she choose skimpy, sexy knickers or the enormous, off-white, pair that would hold in her ample curves? When she held the high-waisted ones aloft the whole female audience, myself included, laughed and cringed. Those panties represented everything that we didn’t aspire to be. I was as surprised as anyone with the unexpected decline of the thong and the rise of the “Brazilian” style instead. Nowadays, panties are big and they seem to be getting bigger. Sales of larger knickers are booming as women relegate skimpier styles to the back of their underwear drawer. Boy shorts and high-waist briefs reappeared on the high street and now sales are booming. One reason for this is the fashion for “underwear as outerwear” promoted by Lady Gaga and Lily Allen among others. The other trend that has revived interest in them is the popularity of all things retro. The eager acceptance of 1950’s waist-cinching styles has done more than anything to help big panties lose their “Bridget Jones” image. When I was shopping in Marks and Spencer recently I made sure I had a look at their high-waisted knickers. I found out that they’d changed a lot. Instead of the […]
Some fetishists prefer women’s panties to any other fetish object. Their eroticisation of this underwear can encourage behaviours which can include the collection and sharing of printed or electronic material depicting the accidental exposure of panties-usually of a softcore variety-or direct sight and physical contact, usually of an explicitly sensory nature like stroking or sniffing. It is not usually the display of nudity that a modern panty fetishist is interested in but the concealment of it by tight-fitting-usually white-cotton panties. Although other fabrics and styles are part of this fetish, they quickly give way to the classic look. A particular fetish highlight can be an elastic waistband, pulled up tight, so that the shape of the female genitalia can be seen in explicit detail through the panties.This is described as the “camel-toe” look. It is in the “panty flash” that the real significance of this kink can be found. Instead of wanting to enjoy prepared images of panties exclusively, some fetishists prefer to imagine a young woman accidentally providing them with a real glimpse of her panties. This might only last for an instant. It is this illicit thrill, often anticipated but only occasionally enjoyed in public amongst oblivious crowds or passengers, that continues to inspire powerful panty fantasies.
Does my bum look big in this?
Does my bum look big in this? That’s what most women ask their partner or their friends when they’re out shopping and trying on a pair of jeans or a skirt. I’m the opposite, however. If my bum doesn’t look big in those clothes then they go right back on the shelf. There are breast men, leg men and men who like a fine bottom. They like it even more when it’s displayed to its full potential. That’s why Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez and Kylie Minogue have found a special place in the heart of bum fans. I don’t get the tabloid media’s obsession with Pippa Middleton’s bum at all. After the recent Royal wedding and the focus on Pippa’s rear end I was confused. I didn’t see a rear end on her at all. It was even more mysterious when women went on strange diets and started weird exercise progammes to be just like Pippa. It was a hard sell and it seemed to work. For me, the skinny bum syndrome is something that happens when you lose weight too quickly or do too much exercise. It’s always something to be avoided. Whenever it happens to me I know it’s time to stop and eat some cake. I’m very fussy when it comes to buying panties. They have to be a good fit and be flattering to my bum. The bigger they make it look, the better. When I found these crotchless lace panties, I knew that they could have […]
Making the Most of your Unwanted Christmas Presents
I can always turn unwanted presents to my advantage. For me, the definition of an ideal present is one that you didn’t imagine that you wanted or needed. When you tear open its wrapping and look at it though, you love it instantly. Convincing someone to buy something that you want in a shop removes that surprise value and you appreciate it less. There’s a type of gift that always gets a sort of medium response from me when I unwrap it. They’re usually generic presents or “safe” ones. Everyone needs socks but how interesting will a new pair ever be? I put on a fake smile and push them to one side when no one’s looking. This Christmas, I was looking forward to a surprise gift of mystery lingerie that I received from a fan. I’m a lingerie fetishist and I adore new pieces. I can never have enough new underwear, especially if it’s expensive and flattering. It must be flattering whether it’s expensive or not, however. What’s the point of a high-end pair of panties that make my end look less than perfect? I opened the designer tissue paper and found the offending article inside. It was a pair of vintage knickers made from an authentic and synthetic material I didn’t recognise. It was intended for an hourglass figure originally. That’s definitely not the figure I have and I’d assumed that any real fan might’ve noticed that. Although I’m an enthusiast for retro-underwear, these was never going to […]
Farewell to the Thong (Thong Fetish)
Many people are relieved that the thong is becoming a thing of the past.They flattered great derrieres but didn’t do much to improve the view of everyone else’s. Now, thongs are seen as being tacky and the sales of them have gone way down compared to boy-shorts and the hugely popular Brazilian cut. Another reason for the change in taste is the advance in the technology of panty fabrics. Thongs used to be the only underwear that guaranteed no visible panty line – now they all can. In a time of increased stress due to the eurozone crisis, women don’t need a reason for extra pressure. Worrying about how many people can see their thong when they bend over is something they can live without. Motorists in Barcelona – who tried to avoid noticing the whale-tails on the back of every motorbike around them – can also relax just a little bit more now. Thongs were all I ever had in my underwear drawer. My lovers used to confess to me that – seen on my arse- they were the sexiest thing ever. Sometimes though, wearing them wasn’t quite such an attractive prospect. My worst experience with a thong happened one Summer when I got off at my stop on the metro. A woman came up to me and looked as though she wanted to apologise for something. She pointed to the back of my skirt and I checked it myself. The zip had broken open and my thong was […]
How To Be A Good Slave
Being a good slave is not easy. Even the best ones slip up sometimes and make mistakes – sometimes intentionally. For the first – and last – time, here are my ten slave commandments. They need to be followed if you ever want to be a good slave yourself. 1. Understand that your Goddess is always right. She should never be questioned or contradicted in any way. 2. A good slave should be available to serve at all times, even when his Goddess is asleep. 3. All of your disposable income should be available for your Goddess to use in whichever way She sees fit. 4. Never – ever – complain. Just shut up and just serve, serve, serve. 5. Always do more for your Goddess than what is expected of you. This might impress Her enough for you to earn privileges. 6. Always listen closely to details and never get important facts wrong. 7.Worship your goddess and realise how lucky you are to be near such a unique creature. 8.Never make demands on your Goddess. Anything you receive from Her is a gift. 9.A good slave never shows any signs of free will. 10.Never threaten your Goddess with the termination of your worship. This is the worst of all possible slave-crimes. As a natural switch I occasionally enjoy playing around with the role of a passive sub instead of my preferred domme status. When I slid down onto my knees and assumed a classic sub pose I was always […]
My Top Five Fetishes
Here are my top five fetishes: Blindfolds I love being lazy and having someone else apply their touches, caresses and breath to unexpected areas of my body. The inability to see and anticipate the next possible movement from random hands just accelerates my desire and makes me anxious to find out all the faster. Spanking I love spanking but it has to be done a certain way. It should begin an involving role-play scenario followed by alternating spanking and soft caresses. It’s just as much fun to give as it is to receive, particularly when the opportunity to apply several slaps to a fine arse can be a mutual pleasure mixed with occasional burning warmth. Panties I can never have enough pairs of panties. Some women collect shoes, others want a private museum of handbags but, for me, the different effects, styles and cuts that a variety of panties offer me for photo-sets, nights out and private appearances can’t be over-estimated. When I have new pairs sent to me and they fit perfectly, I’m never happier. Although I’m a true panty fetishist with over 200 pairs, choosing just the right ones is always a challenge. Tickling I love how relaxing it can be to be tickled by an true tickle fetishist. They know how to use it as an ice-breaker at first before the awkward silences are replaced by sudden fits of laughter. Like the flip-side of spanking, tickling also relies upon the tension between tickles, the anticipation and the […]