I have always envied women who are able to walk easily and elegantly in high heels without falling over. Sadly, I do not have as much luck as they do. It is very difficult for me to find shoes that combine sex appeal with comfort. The few times that I have gone out wearing high heels have ended up the same way and bruises are something that are never thought of as sexy. Because of my clumsiness, I only wear heels for photo sessions and sex sessions.
Heels Fetish is based on the transforming quality of premium footwear on the shape of the female foot and lower leg.
To wear high-heels well and walk in them convincingly is a result of constant self discipline and practice. A fetishistic spectator understands this and a woman who can demonstrate an expertise with heels commands nothing but respect, devotion and arousal from them.
Heels alter the centre of gravity, posture and height of a woman to such a degree that she almost becomes someone else physically; an individual that demands attention and compliance. In this way they have become required fetish-wear for any domme who seeks to use the power they represent.
As well as implying sharpness, firmness and the subordination of comfort in favour of control, heels can increase their effect by the material they are made from, particularly in the case of patent leather which gives them an unnatural, militaristic and mechanical image. They can be worn in their short form or combined with a long-boot design to enhance their total effect.
An increasingly popular variant on heel fetish is one where their scuffed and worn condition of the footwear becomes especially important to the fetishist in question.
Shoe Dangling Fetish
Shoe dangling can appeal to shoe fetishists, foot fetishists or both at the same time. I do wonder if the thrill that shoe dangling fetishists experience when a woman dangles her high heel shoes is the same If her balancing ability isn’t up to scratch, and the shoe falls to the ground suddenly and unintentionally, is it a turn on? Perhaps it’s the anticipation of the shoe dropping, and not the event itself, that causes so much arousal?
Summertime Sadness for Hosiery Fetishists
The warm weather has arrived, finally. I can appreciate the increased exposure of firm cleavages and long bare legs to greedy eyes on the street. While many pedestrians are thrilled about seeing more naked skin as they walk around, I cannot help but feel a little sad at the spectacle. As a devoted hosiery fetishist, the rising temperatures can only mean that my passion for wearing sheer seamed stockings, fishnet stockings and suspender belts will have to be put on hold again until autumn returns. I just adore going out dressed in extravagant lingerie. I enjoy wearing a short skirt over the top of stockings and suspenders especially. The feeling of my naked thighs stroking against each other with every single step of my high heels arouses me more than I can explain. It can be a real challenge to wear stockings and suspenders properly. It requires time, precision and no small amount of effort to get them looking just right. If they’re seamed stockings it’s even more complicated but its always worth it. That means ensuring that the seams are perfectly straight and that the stocking tops are at the identical height at the top of both thighs. Then it is essential to attach the clasps of the suspender straps with perfect symmetry. You can’t achieve this yourself without a full-length mirror. Alternatively, having the painstaking hands of an attentive sub simplifies the process completely. Recently, I discovered the solution to the problem of stockings and suspenders for lazy […]
Naked with Heels
Photo: Lourdes Ribas I went on a date recently with a potential sub. I was really looking forward to it until he begged me on Whatsapp to wear a skirt with stockings, suspenders and high heels for our first meeting. He seemed far too demanding for my liking and naturally I began to wonder what kind of sub he actually was. Even so, I thought I’d give him a second chance to impress me and instead of cancelling our date, I thought it would be a good idea to wear the opposite. When I turned up in jeans and flat sandals, I could tell he was disappointed. “I only wear heels for photos and sex,” I informed him later on that evening as I sipped a cold caipirinha. By then I had already decided that I wouldn’t be doing either with him, so why bother wearing heels? There’s nothing like slipping on a pair of high heels to feel sexy, it’s true. Nevertheless, heels can be a problem during sex, so I have discovered. As my height is 1.70m, (or 1.69m to be absolutely precise) I often tower over my Spanish lovers and that just isn’t sexy at all. Although I like to be in charge, I still like to feel dainty against a strong masculine body. Wearing heels for photos, however, is a must. Even if you can’t see them in the photo, they instantly enhance the figure and not just the legs: heels are essential for getting that […]
Cyberslave: My New Short Film
Cyberslave is a short film that tells the story of a struggling dominatrix and her relationship with Slave X. It explores the dynamics of a D/s relationship, Financial Domination, virtual relationships, during the current economic crisis.. …. But who is the slave? This is the first time I have taken to scriptwriting, I hope you enjoy it! I have always questioned the power dynamics in a D/s relationship when there is money involved. I’ve always believed that the person who pays is the one in charge. Especially if the money is used for everyday living costs, and therefore the dominatrix relies on her slaves’ contributions to live. This calls into question who really has the power. In Cyberslave I wanted to explore the how a financial domme tries to maintain control of her slave and herself, despite her total lack of control over her own situation. Written by and Starring Venus O’Hara Directed by Antón González and Vicente González Make-up and Art Direction: Mariam Elazzouzi Produced by La Isla
I’m feeling a bigger and bigger attraction towards the world of TV these days. If you asked me why this is I would have a hard time explaining it. The irony is that I don’t even own a TV. I don’t feel as if I’m missing out on anything and I function perfectly well without gameshows, celebrity gossip or the latest docusoap. Still, the potential for TV to promote and develop Planet Venus can not be ignored. I had anticipated being booked for a TV appearance or two after Interviu magazine featured me on its cover and inside its pages. Despite my efforts to get on TV at that time, I was constantly reminded, by someone who must remain nameless, that it would be much easier for me to be featured if I went out with a footballer or if I got off with Paquirrin. When I thought about it I decided that I was not that desperate. Fortunately, my ambition to have a higher profile on TV is being realised without me having to compromise or do what other people think is necessary to succeed. I was right not to follow their advice. TV is finding me and not the other way round. These pictures were shot a year ago and I have been waiting for an excuse to use them since then. Now I can because I was on TV just last Friday ( May 11th 2012). I appeared in a segment of the programme Callejeros made by […]