A “come shot” (or cum shot) is a slang term used to describe a person ejaculating (in film or video, or image in a pornographic magazine), usually onto a person or object. The come shot has become such a common conclusion to scenes in mass-market porn that if a scene doesn’t end with an ejaculation sequence, viewers may believe that the actor was unable to climax or that the scene was cut. For male consumers of hardcore, “reality” is everything and the proof of the actor’s orgasm is the most important part of the movie. In the real world, a blow-job that ends with a come shot on the woman’s face remains a powerful sexual fantasy for many men. The practice is still linked to fetishism and continues to be taboo amongst many women. For them, the act itself forces them to be submissive to their partner’s desires. For other women this couldn’t be further from the truth. In their eyes their ability to fulfil a man’s greatest sexual fantasy not only makes them feel powerful, essential and in control of his sexual responses but to duplicate a porn come shot with skill and confidence makes them excited and horny. In western culture, male sexual fulfilment has become identified with orgasm and the male orgasm is the full stop at the end of the sentence. For women, however, a sudden male ejaculation limits the potential for their own sexual satisfaction. For me, it’s not an issue if a man produces […]
Glasses fetishism is characterised by the effect that a pair of glasses can have on the erotic imagination of a spectator. Glasses are often a key component in many role-playing scenarios. Glasses of different shapes, sizes and prescription strengths allow the participants to invest more belief in the erotic reality of their chosen characters.
Glasses can change the shape of a face, alter mannerisms and allow a fetishist to imprint almost any persona they prefer onto a wearer. As spectacles become less obvious in public due to the development of corrective surgery and the popularity of contact lenses, they have become increasingly associated with the past. The key moments that fetishists remember, when thinking about their formative experiences with people wearing glasses become vital, imaginative, starting points for them. In this way, the personas of teachers, students and secretaries become fetish stand-bys and a pair of glasses can summon up the erotic potentials of them with ease.
Glasses as objects can be adapted and enhanced to promote their power to arouse with large, “geeky” frames, clumsy repairs, thick lenses suggesting short sightedness and many more. The way they can be worn can be just as arousing as the glasses themselves, with a pair resting crookedly on the nose being a particular favourite
Glasses Fetish – Venus O’Hara
These days, looking like a geek is sexy. Even though I don’t need glasses, I have a glasses fetish. People who wear glasses have an instant air of intelligence. When faced with two equally competent applicants for the same job it is only natural that a Human Resources officer would choose a studious-looking young woman with dark hair and glasses over a girl with highlighted hair and a bad complexion. Sometimes glasses act like a soft disguise for a face in a way not easy to comprehend at first glance. When a girl wears her hair up and flaunts a functional pair of workplace glasses, our easy appreciation of her is denied and we begin to speculate feverishly, in our own minds, about what she might look like with her hair down and her eyes and face gloriously naked instead. Just the act of her removing those glasses is heightened with a delicious fetish potential all of its own. That potential can be exploited in any number of arousing ways when applied to fetish role-play. Glasses can assist you in embodying a character more fully than just about any other prop or piece of apparel. With the appropriate pair slid onto your nose, you can become a strict teacher or a disobedient student, exploitative businesswoman or timid librarian; the potential they represent for an array of other personas is almost too tempting for words. The effect they have on a hypnotised lover has to be seen to be believed. Photos by […]
Love Me Like You Hate Me – Teaser
I recently made my acting debut in the acclaimed short film “Love Me Like You Hate Me”, written and directed by Erika Lust, (Lust Films 2010). It is an arousing exploration of the seductive thrills of domination and the fear and excitement of submission in which I play seven characters. Now, the film has been re-edited, re-scored and re-imagined to further emphasise its unusual ability to disturb and excite with its lurid and fetishistic imagery of domestic servitude, confinement and spanking, gloves fetish, glasses fetish, wet clothes fetish and much more. In its new form it has become an unusually kinetic and intense type of BDSM thriller which restores footage-previously regarded as too intense-of me bound hand and foot and constrained by a ball-gag, to its list of astounding highlights. I’m still shocked at how effective the following teaser is and I can hardly wait to see the more provocative cut of the film when it debuts soon. Photo above by Kristyan Geyr Images TEASER LOVE ME LIKE YOU HATE ME Cargado por lustfilms. – Mira más videos de TV y películas.
Glasses (Geek Fetish) – Venus O’Hara
Glasses alter a face completely. People who wear glasses are often perceived as intelligent or sometimes as geeks. Luckily I have excellent vision so I do not need to wear them but I love dressing up in glasses. They transform me into a sultry secretary or a strict teacher. Here in Spain my friends say that for them when I wear glasses I look like the stereotypical English teacher. Bearing this in mind, I bought these glasses for just 5 euros in an accessories shop just to give a friend with benefits of mine a “surprise” English lesson. He had arrived two minutes late and reacted completely normal to my ridiculous disguise. We worked through some very simple exercises about appearance using the verb to be: “he is tall, he is short, he is medium height”. My student was perfect up until the point where he told me that he hadn’t done his homework. Needless to say, my student was punished… I decided to get my glasses out again during this shoot with David Vega, and no he wasn’t the student in case you were wondering. Enjoy! Venus O’Hara Photos by www.davidvegaphotography.com
I just love looking at old pictures from my days as Tilly Johnson, Erotic Review secretary performing some random secretarial duties. The main title image reminds me of the film “Secretary”, my favourite film ever. One of these days I may do a Tilly-inspired shoot with my office clothes and glasses but this time with my wild red hair. Enjoy the set! Venus O’Hara
Remembering my School Days – Venus O’Hara
My school days were tricky. After an adolescence of puppy fat, acne and general growing pains, I began to discover my female powers. At eighteen I wanted to seduce the “unseducible” just to see how much girl power I really had. One significant male in a position of authority once told me to stop provoking him and that was like the girl in the Nabakov classic. Coincidentally a few days later I was at a friend’s flat and I saw a classic Nabakov novel on his bookshelf and I asked if I could borrow it. I wanted to understand exactly what the significant male had meant and pick up a few extra weapons of seduction on the way. This is a tribute to the schoolgirl fetish. Photography by Andrew O’Hara