Gags

Gag fetishists enjoy that object’s ability to restrict but not eliminate the vocalisations of the individual wearing it. A gag can be added to a variety of different bondage games and BDSM role-plays and the “gagged” partner is almost always regarded as the passive and submissive one. The act of “gagging” can become a ceremonial act between a “top” and “bottom” that establishes BDSM heirarchy without a word being spoken.

Many submissives find erotic pleasure in being made speechless and having to take orders without being able to respond with anything other than gibberish. To be left in a position where nodding or shaking their head is their only means of communication reduces them to a function of the dominant’s pleasure. Satisfaction can also be obtained from the literal feel of wearing one, either in a submissive or dominant role.

Gags have connotations of punishment and control and can be used as an aid to physical and emotional humiliation. The type of gag that is employed will depend on the preferences of the parties and on its suitability to the type of role-play scene. Found clothing like scarves or underwear can stand-in for purpose-designed examples quite effectively as long as attention is always paid to safety.

 

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