I love playing bondage games and I take great pleasure from the care and attention that has to be put into perfecting some of its more elaborate forms. Something like shibari, with all of its meticulous attention to detail, can be spectacular in its aesthetics and deliciously restrictive in its function. It takes a lot of preparation and demands a lot of skill and plenty of time to execute it properly and make it authentic. Bondage tape is an easy alternative if I am feeling a little lazy or if I want a sense of surprise and spontaneity. It’s cheap to buy, quick to apply and avoids the feeling of claustrophobia that heavy, unyielding rope can cause. Bondage tape is also incredibly versatile and it can adapt to almost any variation of tying, strapping or wrapping that you can think of. Bondage tape, because of a deceptively weak appearance when it is tugged free of its cardboard reel, can fool you into imagining that it is a slightly vanilla option. It’s comical variety of bright colours and a resemblance to thin latex certainly gives that impression. The real value of bondage tape can be felt, quite literally, when layers of it begin to criss-cross your breasts and are used to secure your wrists and ankles together like metal cuffs. Finally, when the bondage tape is peeled away, the feeling it leaves on the skin is very similar to latex and so is the clammy sensation. If you want to exploit […]
Podophilia or foot fetishism describes a popular and complex fetish. For foot fetishists in general, the foot duplicates the attractions of an entire sexualised body but in a more compact form. Some features of feet that receive particular attention are: their overall shape and size, toes, arches, soles and whether they are clean or dirty.
Toes, for instance, can be singled out for their length, plumpness or the space between the big toe and one next to it. This is known as ‘toe cleavage’. A partialism for toes can also be expressed by the foot fetishist sucking on all of them in turn or favouring the big toe in particular. In either case this practice is known as a ‘toejob’.
On the other hand, a preference for toenails can be defined by whether they are long or short and/or if they are painted or not. If they are painted then the colour and type of nail polish used becomes significant.
The soles of the feet can be more attractive to certain foot fetishists if they are slender as opposed to wide and/or whether they are smooth or hard.
In the same way that partly-clothed bodies tend to be more stimulating that fully naked ones, feet can have a state of dress or undress. Feet that wear specific shoes or socks can repeat the motifs of clothing. Some foot fetishists prefer high heels to flat shoes and a tight pair of socks can leave compression marks on the ankle in a way that is reminiscent of the waistband of panties. Adornments, like ankle bracelets and toe rings, can elevate the fetishistic importance of the foot even more.
Feet can be made to feel glamourous and special in several ways. They can be singled out for special attention from the rest of the body with expensive pedicures, foot spas and comprehensive beauty treatments. Feet are particularly sensitive and responsive to any form of sensory interaction such as kissing, caressing, tickling, licking and sucking. This type of attentiveness finds its ultimate expression in a more ritualised form of foot worship. This practice is important when it is incorporated into the advanced scenarios played out in BDSM and Femdom.
Feet can also become the equivalent of a vagina when they are placed side by side leaving a vulva-like space between them. This is euphemistically referred to as the ‘fourth hole’. A woman’s mouth, vagina and anus comprise the first three. When a man’s penis is inserted into the ‘fourth hole’ and the woman closes her feet around it to masturbate him, it is known as ‘a footjob’.
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Seductive Soles (Foot Fetish)
Photos: Lourdes Ribas I’m still discovering the world of foot fetishism and I’m doing my best to cater to my foot fetish fans by taking pictures that I hope they will like. It’s quite hard to please all of them though. The thing I’m finding is that there is no such thing as a typical foot fetishist. If I take pictures of my feet with painted nails then, sure enough, I receive requests for unpainted ones shortly after. It’s impossible to keep all the foot fetishists happy all of the time, it seems. I decided to shoot a foot fetish set that would appeal to fans of the soles of my feet in particular. It seemed such a straightforward task at first. The fact that I could recline on a comfortable sofa, with my legs raised, just to flaunt my soles was the main thing that appealed. It turned out to be far more challenging than it looks in the pictures. Sometimes, it takes a lot of hard work to give the impression of being lazy. I hadn’t anticipated the preparation that the photo-shoot required and it came as a surprise. I had to take the time to use an expensive scrub and moisturiser to guarantee the condition and appearance of my feet. Foot fetishists will appreciate that I had to insist on a careful pedicure as well. I made the mistake of getting up from the sofa and walking a few steps on the parquet floor. Suddenly, the soles of […]
I have been thinking about doing a Sploshing photo-shoot for a long time, at least a couple of years in fact. The “Wet and Messy” fetish has fascinated me for all of that time but I have never quite got around to exploring it properly. The thing is, Sploshing appeals to me more during the summer months. That is because having cold, sweet liquids and slimy edible goop dripped onto me, or thrown over me, seems like a more tolerable prospect when it is warmer. Nevertheless, two summers have gone by and nothing much happened. This summer is going to be very different. This week it was time to take decisive Sploshing action and, as luck would have it, the opportunity to have an obliging photographer on hand, to record the event, arose quite unexpectedly. What type of slime, gunk or slop would be available and appropriate for the session? I did not plan out the Sploshing session nor did I prepare a selection of sugary, gooey desserts in anticipation of it as I should have done. All I did was haul the refridgerator door open and hope that there might be something suitably cold, sticky and wet, waiting inside. Fortunately, I found a large tub of yoghurt (vegan of course) that I could mix with water and put to good Sploshing use. I imagined how it would feel as it trickled down my feet. No matter how prepared you think you are for being smeared, the sudden sensation of the […]
Bondage for Lazy Lovers
Sex isn’t always mind-blowing, and if you only like explosive sex with people that you’re really attracted to, then as a singleton, you can either wait until you find someone who really inspires you (although you might be waiting a long time) or you can masturbate excessively. It can be very frustrating. This is when resorting to a “second class shag” can become tempting. It’s never a good idea to go down to third or forth division…, one has to have some standards! By “second class” I mean someone you like, but perhaps that particular person doesn’t make you go weak at the knees, no matter how drunk you are. For me, the desire for real sex isn’t necessarily synonymous with the desire to explore another body, (I reserve that for my first class encounters). Perhaps I just want to be selfish and it’s in these second division shag situations that I’ve found that bondage is the perfect solution for lazy lovers, as my passive state is justified all of a sudden. Thanks to a couple of knots, it can suddenly seem like a first class shag. Photos by Lourdes Ribas For more Foot Fetish and Bondage photos form this session, see the full set (32 photos) in theMEMBER’S AREA Members | Billing Support
There is a primitive thrill associated with properly applied ankle restraint. The heady eroticism that is experienced through it can often be combined with an instinctive response that can only be described as animal in nature. Ankle restraint does not have to be part of a bondage game to reveal its sexual potential. Having doggy-style sex is extremely horny on its own terms but if my lover takes the opportunity to grab my ankle, when I am powerless to resist, our excitement can be multiplied. I am not only immobilised but I am suddenly turned into a submissive creature at the mercy of my lover’s whims and capriciousness. It doesn’t get much better. Even the sensation of wearing something around the ankles is arousing; I am thinking about a particular pair of sandals, that I bought recently, that have a slightly abrasive ankle-strap. I make sure that the strap is always a little too tight when I am out walking. That subtle pressure on my ankles makes me feel more secure, more aware of that special part of my foot. No one walking past me would ever know that my feet feel “strapped-in”. They would only see me smiling if they had the time to notice anything at all. On the other hand, a fetishist would spot a clever little ankle detail on a pair of high-heels, or boots, before anything else. When bondage is applied to my ankles, the result can leave me feeling like a mermaid. Although handcuffs can […]
Foot Fetish – Learning to love my feet
I’ve never really liked my feet very much. My opinion has had to change recently, however, and I have some pursuasive foot fetishists to thank for it. To my eyes, looking down at them, the appearance of my feet just reminds me of how uncomfortable they can be when the weather is hot. They always feel sweaty. The warmer it is, the more embarrassing it becomes when they turn a pink colour. This is especially true when the rest of my skin retains its unusual whiteness. My feet have always seemed too wide in comparison to my skinny ankles as well. To be honest, the idea that the appearance and shape pf my feet could ever be provocative, or even highly arousing, to dedicated foot fetishists has always seemed quite ridiculous. That’s the wonderful thing about fetishism of any sort. It thrives, in all its diverse forms, in a place that should be entirely separate from the mainstream for it to retain its authentic flavour. It seems that you don’t need the “perfect” foot to appeal to a fetishist. They can be turned on by the specific details or unique attributes of a certain foot and not just the foot itself. Some fetishists like the ritual of having toenails painted, others prefer those nails to be left natural. Some specialise in the anatomy of a foot. It could be the turn of an ankle, the asymmetry of the toes, the angle of the arch or the plumpness of the sole […]