Venus O'Hara

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I’m Venus O’Hara, sex blogger, fetish model, actress and author of  Love Me Like You Hate Me, English for Perverts and The Mask of Venus.

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A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?

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Why Do We Fake Orgasms?

Faked orgasms usually occur when the sexual act seems to be going on for far too long with no real end-point in sight. Many men try to prolong their performance until a woman has had her climax. This consideration is not due to a man’s sense of sexual chivalry. It’s more likely that seeing a woman spasming, because of his own efforts, turns a man on more strongly, increases his own pleasure and satisfies his ego as well.

Wake Up with One Guy, Go To Bed with Another

I prefer that a certain amount of time goes by between having one lover and the next. And, I’m not just talking about the time it takes to have a shower and to change the sheets – I mean a space of several days at least. When I was talking about this subject to a friend recently, he explained that just after he’s woken up with one women, he becomes anxious to sleep with another one that very day.

Ocean Storm – A Rechargeable Vibrating Egg from Adrien Lastic

Ocean Storm is an ultra powerful rechargeable egg vibrator from Adrien Lastic. It has 10 different vibration settings and it works with a remote control. It comes with a USB cable and a drawstring storage bag. It’s my strongest vibrating egg! It can also be used externally as a clitoral stimulator.

A Ticklee’s Perspective

What I needed to explore, and capture, was my own foot voyeurism potential; the ticklee’s fetish perspective. I wanted my foot fans to see what I see: when I’m lying on my back, when my ankles are tied, when I’m looking down at my toes and when a big pair of male hands have got to work on them. The photographer had no problem with handing his camera over for me to use. As he explained “Now, I’ve got both hands free, to tickle you

Sleeping in Separate Bedrooms

Today, the most common excuse for avoiding sex is: ‘I’m tired’.This simple phrase seems to be replacing the classic: ‘Sorry, I’ve got a headache’. Given that the amount of sleeping disorders has increased with our hectic lives, it’s really no wonder that more and more couples have chosen to sleep in separate bedrooms during the working week. Oddly enough, many of them claim that this unusual arrangement not only gives them a far better quality of sleep but that doing so has improved their sex life as well.

Tiani 24k from LELO – Sex Toy Review

LELO TIANI 24K is a luxury, gold-plated, sex toy for use couples. It has 8 vibration settings – two controlled by SenseMotion. It has two motors, one for the G-spot and the other for the clitoris. It comes in very stylish gift packaging and includes a USB cable, a LELO lubricant, a 10 year warranty, a drawstring storage bag and 2 AAA batteries for its remote control.

Even Hairier Armpits

It’s been almost three months since the last time I shaved my armpits or my legs. Three months. It’s come as a real surprise to me to discover that having a little more leg hair, and a lot more armpit hair, can be an enjoyable experience in some ways. I enjoy having hairy armpits from an aesthetic viewpoint. Trying to use my roll-on deodorant represents one of the downsides; it’s messy and the sensation isn’t pleasant.

Six Degrees of Infidelity

January is the most adulterous month of the year’ so says Victoria Milan, a contact page that caters for married individuals or couples looking to enjoy a discreet affair. I wonder if the intention of being unfaithful is the same as being unfaithful. What is infidelity and what are the limits?

Form 2 from Jimmy Jane – Sex Toy Review

I had heard great things about Jimmy Jane as a brand, and I was really looking forward to trying Form 2. I had even heard from a good friend in England, who is also an experienced sex toy user, that it was her favourite clitoral stimulator ever. Naturally, I had high expectations for Form 2 and I was very anxious to try it out for myself.

Gladiator Sex Toy Review – A Toy for Couples from Adrien Lastic

Gladiator by Adrien Lastic. It’s a couple’s toy that is rather like and elaborate cock ring. It’s USB rechargeable and works with a remote control. It has two motors, one for the clitoris and another to stimulate the G spot. The result is like turning your guy’s manhood into a rabbit vibrator.

Long Distance Lovers

The most frustrating part of travelling is the arrival. Just when you think that you’ve reached the end of the journey, you still have to hang on a little bit longer. If you’re on a train, it slows down to a crawl as it approaches the station. If, on the other hand, you’re on a plane that’s just touched down, you still have to sit and wait until everyone else has taken their luggage down. You’re there, where you want to be but you’re still kept a short distance away from complete fulfilment. Holding on seems to take an eternity, especially if you have a long distance lover waiting for you..

Unboxing The New Erotic Accessories from Bijoux Indiscrets

When I saw the hip chains from the new collection by Bijoux Indiscrets, I knew that they would be ideal for this type of erotic game. There is also something very alluring about being naked except for a chain (or two). Feeling something cold and metallic draped against your skin that moves against you with each step you take is incredibly arousing. It’s like ‘I’m dressed but naked’. The hip chains highlight the curve and form of your figure even more than being naked does.

Should There Be Equality In Oral Sex?

When it comes to oral sex, If there isn’t equality of giving and receiving, it can become a real issue with some couples. But, please don’t assume that reciprocity should be mandatory where this subject is concerned. Deciding who gives oral sex on a given night shouldn’t be like buying rounds of drinks in a bar; your turn, my turn, your turn and so on.

Womanizer Pro W500 – Sex Toy Review

The first Womanizer 100 has been very successful internationally. According to numerous reports, women around the world have experienced the same rapid, incredibly intense, orgasms thanks to this highly original sex toy. Womanizer Pro W500 is a clitoral stimulator that looks like an ear thermometer but in fact, it’s a highly effective suction device for the clitoris. Now, with a new shape and even more suction power than its predecessor.

Sex Sounds – The Good and The Bad

Sex Sounds – The Good and The Bad The sex sounds that lovers make, when they are in bed together, are as unique as they are themselves. There are some noises, in particular, that fascinate me and there are others that, simply put, can turn a reasonable sex...

Hairy Armpits Fetish

I haven’t welcomed the fact of my fine armpit hairs ever since the first time they appeared. It’s no surprise then that I began to shave them off immediately and didn’t stop. I’m lucky in some ways because I’ve never produced that much body hair in general. That means, if I don’t get around to shaving my armpits for a couple of days, I’m not going to turn into a gorilla. Another benefit of not having to shave all that often is the avoidance of unnecessary, and distracting, skin irritation after the fact.

The Warmth of Winter Sex

I love to wake up warm in bed when I know, for a fact, that it’s cold outside. Hearing the wind and the rain hitting hard against my window panes only encourages me to stay under the covers; perhaps for the whole day. That decision becomes even easier if I’m accompanied. For me, winter is the hottest season and not just when I’m in bed.

Smart Vibe Ring from TENGA – Sex Toy Review

Smart Vibe Ring from TENGA – A high-end, rechargeable cock ring specially designed for a natural fit. There are wedding rings, engagement rings, eternity rings and many other types. There’s no doubt that rings often symbolise love and commitment. Even Beyoncé sang: “’Cause if you liked it, then you shoulda put a ring on it,” in her hit single All The Single Ladies. But, what about cock rings?

Miss Bi from Fun Factory Sex Toy Review

MISS BI from FUN FACTORY is a rabbit vibrator that offers dual stimulation. This isn’t just down to its two motors – one for the clitoris and the other located in the shaft to provide vaginal stimulation – but also because they are designed to operate independently. Each motor has its own corresponding button, so the result is a wide variety of combinations to achieve stimulation. Miss Bi is also intelligent. You can store whichever combination you prefer. Its shape is ergonomic and it’s very comfortable to hold

Symphony Wand Massager from Adrien Lastic – Sex Toy Review

Wand massagers have the reputation of being highly effective and scandalously loud. They have to be plugged into the mains and are often so powerful that, after climaxing, the vulva is left tingling and numb for some time afterwards. Some user’s enjoy this sensation. If, on the other hand, you’re looking for one with a subtler effect, Adrien Lastic’s Symphony has all the traditional advantages of a wand massager but does away with the disadvantages. Symphony is smaller, a lot quieter and doesn’t have a

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