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I’m Venus O’Hara, sex blogger, fetish model, actress and author of  Love Me Like You Hate Me, English for Perverts and The Mask of Venus.

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NEA™ 2 from LELO Sex Toy Review – Luxury Orgasms

NEA ™ 2 from LELO is a new, ultra powerful, clitoral stimulator, with a 10-year guarantee. I’ve been very fortunate to have experienced a few multiple orgasms in my life but now, with assistance from the latest toys from LELO, it’s happening a lot more often. PROS: Extraordinarily powerful, ergonomic shape, USB rechargeable, highly intense orgasms, smooth surface, easy to clean, extremely discreet because of its small size and its lack of noise, luxury packaging.

The Complicated World of Married Lovers

Having a lover who’s married can be a complicated situation for several reasons. It’s never easy to meet up with them, especially spontaneously, and the time that you actually get to spend with them is always going to be limited. Just getting into contact with them can present difficulties; you just never know if they’re alone, with their official partners or busy with their families. An ongoing affair requires care and discretion at all times.

Are you a tickler or a ticklee? (Tickle Fetish)

In tickle fetish scenarios, a tickler is a person who performs the tickling whereas a ticklee is the person who is being tickled. Despite my usual dominant nature, I beg to differ when it comes to being part of a tickling tryst. Under those circumstances I much prefer to be the ticklee instead of the tickler.

When Office Flirting Becomes Something More…

Flirting in the office is usually just an innocent game that helps to pass the time and brightens up the day. It also acts as a wonderful distraction from the tedious tasks of daily employment. Sometimes, you don’t even need to be partiularly attracted to the person you are flirting with either. When you spend all of your working day confined in the same space, hour after hour, with the very same people, your tastes may change without you even being aware of it.

Sex Toy Review LILY ™ 2 LELO – The First Scented Vibrator

A scented vibrator? I have to confess, when I heard this idea for the first time, I had my doubts. After all, smell is so important in sex; the pheromones of a partner can be more mesmerizing than many commercial fragrances. Unfortunately, some scented products try to mask the natural aroma. but that’s not the case with LELO LILY ™ 2 – the first scented vibrator.

GIVEAWAY: Win a Vibrating Diamond from Bijoux indiscrets

Although I’m British, this year I will be celebrating Thanksgiving for the first time. I’ll be giving away a very special prize from Bijoux Indiscrets, a leading erotic accessory company based in Barcelona, Spain. The lucky winner will receive a vibrating diamond and some massage gel. This is also my very first international giveaway that’s open to all countries (as long as you are over 18 years old of course).

The Wonders of Intimate Waxing

Like a lot of ‘pro-hair’ people, I always thought that total hair removal would be an attempt to look like a girl when I was a grown woman. That was what I thought right up until I tried it for myself. I hadn’t planned to ‘go smooth’ when I went for my usual bikini-line wax. It was a Friday and I arrived at my regular salon imagining that the same girl would be doing me as usual. It turned out to be a different one this time, however.

The Best Tickle Fetish Toys

In some BDSM kits, the feather ticklers that are included aren’t fit for purpose; they supply a bit of relaxing fun for someone who’s on the receiving end but that’s all. If you want to tickle someone properly then a different kind of equipment is worth considering. Real enthusiasts of tickling do without mundane feathers or little pieces of coloured fluff. They know precisely which tickle fetish toys will yield the desired results. In fact, Mother Nature has amply provided us with a wonderful variety of organic options.

Sex, Lies and WhatsApp

According to a recent study by the University of Indiana, 48 percent of erotic messages, whether they are sent by WhatsApp or SMS, are lies. For example, you can say that: ‘I’m wearing lingerie’, when you’re really wearing a tracksuit. You can claim that: “I’m touching myself,” when you’re actually peeling potatoes. There are even faked orgasms in sexting! The usual reasons for lying are

Men Also Fake Orgasms

Fake orgasms is usually a topic that concerns women who do it to encourage their male partners. However, there are many men also fake orgasms. The worst case of a faked male orgasm that I’ve come across was one that was told to me by a co-worker. He and his wife were trying for a baby and he explained that one day he was so exhausted with the constant routine

The Appeal of Wrinkled Soles (Foot Fetish)

For most people wrinkles are an inevitable, if highly unwelcome, fact of getting older. Our increasingly image-conscious society is governed by the impossibly youthful standards set by popular culture. When it comes to foot fetish, it’s a different story. Some enthusiasts get off on wrinkled soles. As a result of the correct application of expert tickling, the foot can tense up.Toe-curling can follow and the soft sole can ripple prettily as a consequence.

Is it Possible to Overcome Sexual Incompatibility?

There may be passing phases of sexual incompatibility in every relationship. They can be due to a variety of things: impotence, premature ejaculation, incompatible levels of libido or conflicting sexual tastes. Some couples attempt to find a solution to their problems through sex therapy. Sometimes they spend an awful lot of money doing so. But I wonder whether it’s possible to rediscover the spark if it never truly existed in the first place.

Does Size Matter?

It’s a very big question; possibly the biggest. The moment when you undress a new lover can be a moment of enormous joy or sudden disappointment. I remember an experience I had years ago with a male roommate that I really liked. He explained, probably a thousand times during our stay in the shared apartment, that he had a tiny member. That little piece of information never undermined my physical attraction towards him.

Sex Toy Review – Luna Smart Bead by LELO

I’ve just finished the first session with my new personal trainer and I can’t wait to begin the next one. Sometimes it can be hard to get in the mood to do any kind of sport and it seems like a real chore when you’re doing it. It’s only afterwards that you feel glad to have put in all the effort. Eventually, when you begin to see the real results of your hard work, the motivation to take exercise more regularly comes easily. When it comes to toning-up the pelvic floor, the rewards are even more obvious.

An Ode to Premature Ejaculation

I’ve never really understood that there is a ‘problem’ associated with premature ejaculation even though I understand that the possibility of it happening has become an obsession for many men. For me personally, quick sex sessions are the most authentic, entertaining and certainly the wildest ones. In my opinion, the best things in life tend to happen quickly and this is especially true when applied to the bedroom.

Confessions from My First Professional Pedicure

It was a warm and sticky Saturday afternoon and I began realise that I might’ve made a mistake by not booking a professional pedicure sooner. The reason that my anxiety began to grow was that I had a foot fetish photoshoot arranged for the following day and it was going to focus on my feet. I knew that they’d need to be in peak condition.

Classification of Orgasms

There’s nothing quite like having an orgasm. Just think of the amazing tension you experience just a moment before it’s released by sudden spasms and groans. Then there’s the exquisite sense of total relaxation that follows. I must admit that I used to think that women were either vaginal or clitoral as far as their orgasms were concerned. But I think our climax is not limited to two categories, there are many more.

Holey Hosiery!

Putting hosiery on properly requires delicacy and patience. Special care must always be taken with the thin material to avoid it ripping open accidently. There are things you can do to limit the possibility of damage, of course. Sometimes, no matter how careful you are, those precautions let you down. Getting a ladder in your tights is never less than frustrating

The Day I Masturbated for Science

“If you ever get a chance to test my orgasm under laboratory conditions, let me know” I told the scientist Pere Estupinyà when I first met him. I had just watched a TV documentary about sex in which a research team had observed and documented the physiological changes that occured to a couple when they had sexual intercourse. It fed my curiosity about my own responses during climax.

Fulfilling My Foot Fetish Model Responsibilities

Being a foot fetish model is not just about pointing my toes, curving my arches and flaunting my soles. I’ve discovered that it means much more than that. As time goes on, my responsibilities towards my foot fetish fans only seem to increase. Foot fetishists have needs and they are very articulate when they want to express them. Some of them even make specific requests when it comes to provocative foot imagery that I could explore.

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