Venus O'Hara

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I’m Venus O’Hara, sex blogger, fetish model, actress and author of  Love Me Like You Hate Me, English for Perverts and The Mask of Venus.

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A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?

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The Art of Playing Footsie (Foot Fetish)

Playing footsie is an ideal way to spice up a romantic dinner for two. It is even better when it is used as a distraction from yet another boring lunch with the in-laws. Footsie is defined as the action of touching another person’s feet, lightly, with your own.

Searching for a Sole-Mate

My soles hare the most sensitive part of my feet by far. They also represent the area that receives the most attention from my foot fans. If I were to accept each and every one of their offers to lick and suck my soles I know for certain that when I tried to stand up, the volume of saliva would send me sliding across the floor.

The Thrill of Going Barefoot (Foot Fetish)

I remember loving that barefoot feeling when I was young, especially when I went out into the garden in the early morning. As I placed my naked feet on the cold grass, when it was still wet with dew, the delicate skin on my soles and inbetween my toes never failed to respond.

My Foreign Fetish (Xenophilia)

I would definitely consider myself to be a xenophile. My love for foreign things began at a young age when I became obsessed with everything that was French. Later, I lived and studied in Paris as an important part of my universtity degree. My xenophilia became even greater.

Sex Toy Review: Siri 2 by Lelo The Best LELOgasms

I remember the first time I discovered what objectophilia was when I saw an interview with a woman who had fallen in love with the Eiffel tower.
I confess that at the time I thought it was very weird, but now, after testing SIRI 2, a new vibrator from LELO, I have started to feel more empathy with people who are attracted to objects.

Welcome to The Sex Toy Laboratory

Science was never my favourite subject at school; far from it in fact. It is strange then, that I adore watching scientific documentaries online.

Perhaps it is not particularly out of character because those programmes usually focus on the science of sexual response.

Discovering The Fourth Hole (Foot Fetish)

Recently, after enjoying a pedicure and the pampering that goes with it, I wanted to celebrate. I realised that there was really only one way to do it properly. If I really wanted to showcase my freshly-painted toenails and my new softer soles then discovering the power of my fourth hole was the best way. I cannot deny that I had an ulterior motive; those lubricants I needed to test, and review, had been waiting long enough. When you are a sex toy tester, it becomes inevitable that you will end up mixing business with pleasure or vice versa. Fortunately, I had a more than willing accomplice. Later, I laid down on my bed face up and I ordered him to remain standing at the foot so I could see him. “Strip” I ordered and he complied. I extended my long legs and pointed my toes at his vulnerable thighs. I ignored his genitalia completely and he became a little frustrated, trying to grab my teasing ankles. “Wait” I warned him and I resumed my intention of working him up in my own good time. I pressed my big toes into the tops of his legs and drew invisible designs on his thighs and then, going upwards, up and down his abdomen. My talented toes begin to close in on his ever more impressive stiffness. Then, I broke contact and edged backwards a little, bringing my feet together as he stared at them. I constructed my temporary fourth hole with my arches and I began to tease the tip of his bulging member with my new opening. He forgot himself...

Sex Toy Review 2X – A Double ended vibrator by Adrien Lastic

When I was a child, I remember having quite a large collection of toys. They were mainly dolls and, of course, I had my favourites among them. I loved getting them out to play with when my friends came round with their own favourite ones. After we had played for a while, and we became a little bored with our own dolls, we often swapped them with each other but, only for one night. What I secretly longed for was a wooden rocking horse but, sad to say, I never got one. When I grew up, I began to enjoy other types of toys. I took out my frustration with never having had a toy horse by riding men and using them as substitute stallions instead. These days, I have quite an enviable toy collection. I have my favourites, just like I did when I was I younger, however, I’m not as generous as I used to be. In fact, I wouldn’t dream of sharing my sex toys with anyone. Of course, I love sharing the toy experience for example, masturbating in front of someone or even letting them hold the toy for me… When I tried the 2X double ended vibrator by Adrien Lastic – which is ideal for sharing with a partner – I decided to be selfish and try it all to myself. The 2X vibrator can be enjoyed both vaginally and anally. Both ends of the vibrators have different dimensions and separate motors, provoking a variety of sensations. It has an extra long flexible silicone string that connects both vibrators, allowing multiple positions. It can...

The Female Sexual Consumer

There’s no doubt that women are spending a great deal more of their disposable income on sexual products of different kinds. The last decade has seen a rapid rise in the number of high-end erotic boutiques aimed at the female sexual consumer and couples. In their smooth design, attractive displays and simple cleanliness they put the old seedy male-orientated sex shops to shame. Women are spoilt for choice when it comes to sex toys. In fact, there’s so much variety on offer that erotic shopping can even be confusing for sex toy virgins. More recently, the Fifty Shades of Grey literary phenomenon has contributed to the increase of female sexual consumerism. Despite these advances, when it comes to actual ‘hands on’ sexual consumerism among women, then there’s no denying that men have a lot more variety and possibilities than we do. After all, the oldest profession was a service for men. Female sexual freedom is still a quite recent concept, but with increased demand, surely a better variety and range of offerings is just around the corner. There is still the widely held belief that women don’t need to pay for sex and that even if they did, it doesn’t seem to be as socially acceptable. However, in Australia where prostitution is legal, websites like Escorts & Babes, make the whole process a lot easier for women and men. There are many reasons why someone would pay for sex. One of them could be the need to live out a fantasy for a few minutes with someone that, ordinarily, they would never be with in their everyday life. This...

Summertime Sadness for Hosiery Fetishists

The warm weather has arrived, finally. I can appreciate the increased exposure of firm cleavages and long bare legs to greedy eyes on the street. While many pedestrians are thrilled about seeing more naked skin as they walk around, I cannot help but feel a little sad at the spectacle. As a devoted hosiery fetishist, the rising temperatures can only mean that my passion for wearing sheer seamed stockings, fishnet stockings and suspender belts will have to be put on hold again until autumn returns. I just adore going out dressed in extravagant lingerie. I enjoy wearing a short skirt over the top of stockings and suspenders especially. The feeling of my naked thighs stroking against each other with every single step of my high heels arouses me more than I can explain. It can be a real challenge to wear stockings and suspenders properly. It requires time, precision and no small amount of effort to get them looking just right. If they’re seamed stockings it’s even more complicated but its always worth it. That means ensuring that the seams are perfectly straight and that the stocking tops are at the identical height at the top of both thighs. Then it is essential to attach the clasps of the suspender straps with perfect symmetry. You can’t achieve this yourself without a full-length mirror. Alternatively, having the painstaking hands of an attentive sub  simplifies the process completely. Recently, I discovered the solution to the problem of stockings and suspenders for lazy hosiery fetishists-crotchless tights. They only take 30 seconds to put on and the wealth of horny designs and  texture...

Sex Toy Review – The Only Womanizer That’s Just For You

Traditionally, Womanizers have been men who have indulged in casual affairs with different women. They usually have a big problem with monogamy. But now this has changed thanks to a new sex toy called Womanizer. It is a highly original erotic toy that uses a suction device to stimulate the clitoris. In this way it promises to deliver explosive orgasms to its user. So, unlike the typical womanizer, who spreads his affections around, this one will remain faithful to you and you alone. I’ve been eager to try out a sex toy that offers a different and innovative approach to stimulation for quite some time. I had been well aware of the WOMANIZER due to its large promotional campaign and I had read stunning reviews written about it. The question I wanted answering was: does it really work? WOMANIZER uses innovative technology that is unlike any conventional vibrator. It has a suction device that stimulates the clitoris without actually touching it. This is the first time that this technology has been used in this way. It has 6 intensities, is rechargeable via USB, comes with a storage case and has an additional silicon head. Although it’s available in various colors, the WOMANIZER is not the world’s most elegant sex toy. In fact, it looks a little like an ear thermometer. I’ve always thought that the functionality of a sex toy was far more important than its appearance anyway. USABILITY: It is very important to separate the labia to expose the clitoral glans and place the suction device over it. My clitoris was very, very sensitive at first and it was a...

Sex Toy Review: A-Moore Clitoral Stimulator by Adrien Lastic

It’s strange what goes through your head when you masturbate. Most of my fantasies are things that I would never do with people that I would never do either. When I fantasise, I don’t visualise sexual acts as such. I usually think about intense conversations that are charged up with sexual energy instead. I’ve always loved art. I studied Art History and I used to love drawing and painting female nudes. I remember a time when I was living and working in Paris as part of my degree. I revealed my passion for drawing nudes to a much older work colleague. ‘Moi aussi‘ , he said as he was staring at me intensely. Then he explained that he himself used to go to life drawing classes every week. I was impressed. However, the next day when he brought some of his drawings in to show me at work, I was surprised. To say that it wasn’t quite what I had expected would be an understatement. He told me he was learning to draw, but even my worst doodles are of a higher standard. It was obvious to me that he just went there to drool over the naked model. I must admit that I was a bit taken aback at the time and I started to avoid him at work. A lot has changed since those days and now when I remember that very same conversation, I am obliged to cross my legs. When I masturbate I often imagine that I am the model in a life drawing class full of talented artists. He is there at the back,...

Ode to the Original Mr Grey

I’ve always believed that the success of the Fifty Shades of Grey books can be attributed to the character of Christian Grey. For me the the appeal of the trilogy is less about the BDSM and more about the rehearsal of an established female fantasy: a fabulously wealthy, enigmatic older man finding redemption from his past misdemeanours by falling in love with a much younger, poorer and virginal girl. In other words, Fifty Shades of Grey is like a Mills & Boon romance novel with butt-plugs and bondage tape. Anastasia Steel is the lucky girl that women across the world love to identify with. We all desire attention and the arousing prospect of a ripped billionaire choosing us above all others to lavish his attentions and perversions upon was guaranteed to get us wet. Even though he seemed like a stalker sometimes. My personal investment in the allure of Mr Grey fell sharply when Jamie Dornan was cast to play him in the film adaptation of the first book in the trilogy. Although Mr Dornan is a talented actor, serious eye-candy and seems shy in interviews there is a problem. The lack of sexual chemistry between himself and Dakota Johnson, playing Anastasia, killed the fantasy on film for me. Christian will never be my idolised Mr Grey. There is another Mr Grey who makes my pulse race. I’m referring to E. Edward Grey, the protagonist, from the film Secretary as played by the wonderful James Spader. I find it hard to believe that the film, based on a short story by Mary Gaitskill, was released way back in 2002....

Sex Toy Review: G Wave from Adrien Lastic

I really shouldn’t do this, but I’m going to anyway. That’s exactly what I was thinking when there was a painter at work in the hallway of my flat. Nevertheless, I still went into my bedroom to try G Wave,  a new USB rechargeable vibrator from Adrien Lastic that is exceptionally versatile and adjustable. This stylish vibrator is powered by 2 individual silent motors. Its adaptable shape offers a great variety of angles to experiment with to derive maximum pleasure. It can be used as a classic vibrator or it can be bent in half for simultaneous G-spot & clitoral stimulation. It has 10 vibration settings. I fetched my iPad and took it with me into my bedroom. One of my old tricks is to use music to camouflage the sound of my buzzing toys. Fortunately I knew that G wave was silent. It was just the volume of my scandalous orgasms that I had to be worried about. When it was playing, I laid down on my unmade bed. Then I pulled down my trackie bottoms and closed my eyes. I switched the toy on and began to imagine my favourite sexual fantasies. I changed my role and the scenario with every clench, knowing that I didn’t have much time. MATERIAL: Soft touch silicone / ABS USABILITY: There are several ways to use G Wave. The head of the larger shaft feels absolutely amazing as a clitoral stimulator. When used with both parts internally, it feels very pleasant. You can even open it out inside. This is an interesting feature if girth is important to you. When used as a rabbit, however, I had to keep it in place with my thumbs and use both hands to facilitate accurate stimulation. STRENGTH OF VIBRATIONS: Moderate, rumbly vibrations. NOISE: Silent. ORGASM-O-BILITY: I was...

My Feet Demand Attention

My last foot fetish photo session with MrTickleBCN happened over four years ago now. Back then, my understanding of foot worship, tickle fetish and the specific needs of foot fetishists was not as advanced as it is now. Many things have changed for me since then, especially where my feet are concerned. Indeed, it would be fair to say that my awareness of the real erotic value that was inherent in my heels, ankles, arches, soles and toes has come on in leaps and bounds. It’s strange to think about that session now. Back then, I wore stockings because I was ashamed of my feet; I didn’t think of them as being attractive at all. Something wonderful and strange has occurred in the last twelve months. Every so often I posted selfies of my feet on social media to see just what effect they might have. It didn’t take long for my feet to develop a fanbase of appreciative foot fetishists who thought nothing of extolling the virtues of them at length. It is thanks to these aficionados that I have finally begun to love my feet and get turned on by the idea of a foot worship session. My feet demanded the attention of true foot fetishist. So, it seemed necessary and appropriate to get back in touch with MrTickleBCN on the pretext of a photoshoot. Professional pictures of him getting to work on my feet would be really valuable for online consumption by my foot fetishists as well. It wasn’t absolutely essential though, it was the physical contact that I really needed. I wrote to him: “My feet demand attention.”...

Stripping Down to my Naked Face – No Make-Up Selfies

Although I don’t own a TV myself, I still watch a fair amount of trash on YouTube after a long day’s work. One programme that I enjoy in particular is ‘Britain and Ireland’s Next Top Model’. I love discovering their modelling tips and tricks, because posing in front of a camera has been a huge part of my life for the last ten years. Each week, the programme features different themed photoshoots; the least successful model gets sent home. At the beginning of the competition, there is an obligatory ‘no make-up photo shoot’. For the models, the reality of having to scrub their faces clean is always traumatic, to the point where many of them end up in tears. For them, make-up is their armour and they feel naked and vulnerable without it. Interestingly, taking their make-up off made them feel more exposed than actually taking their clothes off. I find the whole thing amusing. However, I must admit that there was a time when I would have empathised completely with their fear of going barefaced. I started wearing make-up at my Catholic high school. Although the nuns were strict, fortunately they never made me wash it off. Thanks be to God. Back then, I was obsessed with covering my face as much as possible. I absolutely hated my translucent white skin with its freckles, and especially when it became red during PE lessons. I used as much base as possible to hide my complexion: foundation, concealer and powder. I even brought it with me in my school bag for touch-ups at break time. Then I discovered eyeliner and...

Review Twenty One Vibrating Diamond – Buzzy Bling!

I always imagined that I would end up getting married one day. I’m a hopeless romantic at heart and I often wondered what it would be like to have a man kneeling before me to propose, and more importantly, offer me a diamond. Then I grew up and with time and experience, I began to think that marriage and diamonds just weren’t for me. Naturally, when I received the Twenty One diamond from Bijoux Indiscrets, I was absolutely thrilled because I never imagined that I would ever be lucky enough to receive a diamond. Although the circumstances were very different from my childhood fantasy: I had just got out of bed when the bell rang. I put my dressing gown on quickly and answered the door with out-of-bed hair and a sleepy face. ‘Are you Venus O’Hara?’ a young courier asked me, without removing his helmet. I nodded, signed the required documentation and he handed me the package. The process was even faster than a civil ceremony. Twenty One is a diamond shaped rechargeable vibrator from Bijoux Indiscrets, a leading Spanish brand specialising in erotic accessories. Twenty One is their very first sex toy. It is waterproof and has a powerful motor with 3 speeds and 7 vibration settings. Presented in an elegant hard storage box, it also includes a drawstring bag, instruction manual, quick start guide and a USB charger. MATERIAL: ABS plastic. USABILITY: After opening the package and admiring the toy as I held in my hands for a while. I went to my bedroom to start the test… and then repeat it! Fortunately it was already charged. However, when the battery eventually ran out, I had trouble unscrewing the toy because my hands were warm and sticky. But after slipping on a pair of Marigold gloves, I was able to...

Review: Vibrator Mr Hook from Adrien Lastic – I’m Hooked!

They say that you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover and, in the case of sex toys, you should never judge a toy by its packaging. Of course, it’s always satisfying to have a well-designed box but my bottom line is always “does this toy deliver mindblowing orgasms every time I use it?” If a toy does that, straight out of the box, then I’ll keep it under my pillow and forget about the packaging it came in. Despite this, I must confess that I made some reckless assumptions about Mr Hook when I held him in my hand for the very first time. Now that we’ve been intimate on numerous occasions, my assumptions have proved worthless and I can fully appreciate just how he earned his name. Believe me when I say that he deserves it. My definition of a great sex toy is quite simple: it has to be so effective and pleasing that I continue to use it long after the review of its quality has been written and published. This is very much the case with Mr Hook from Adrien Lastic. Elegant, perfectly shaped and highly ergonomic, Mr Hook fits perfectly. It has 10 vibration settings that are powered by two individual vibrating motors that line up with the pleasure spots: One motor is in the shaft for the g-spot and there is another external motor to satisfy the clitoris. The removable and washable straps adjust perfectly to any size. MATERIAL: 100% velvet touch silicone + ABS. Very pleasant to touch. STRENGTH OF VIBRATIONS: Strong buzzy vibrations. NOISINESS:  Silent, even on the strongest setting. Excellent if you live with people...

An Afternoon of Foot Worship

‘Sit down and close your eyes’, he says, pointing to a black leather sofa. I obey, a little surprised that he wants to get down to business as soon as I arrive at his office. He covers my eyes with a blindfold and I sigh. Suddenly I feel a lot more relaxed, because from this point onwards, I know that I won’t have to do or think about anything; I can just lie down and enjoy some superior quality foot worship. He unties the laces of my red Converse and takes them off with great care. I notice the cold temperature of the tiled floor through the thin fabric of my white socks. Then, he grabs my ankle and raises it before resting it on his shoulder. I sigh again and throw my head back, relaxing even more. He grabs my other ankle, but instead of putting it on his other shoulder, he holds it firmly, making me feel like his prey and I start to notice my arousal. Photos by Lourdes Ribas Moments later, he releases me and begins to peel my sock off very slowly, as if he were undressing me. My socks suddenly seem to have the same significance as a pair of panties. I can feel the cold air against my skin and then a breath of hot air from his mouth that takes me by complete surprise. I feel his warm wet kisses on my skin as each new piece of it is exposed. As soon as he removes my sock, he takes my naked foot in both hands. I am helpless as I feel his...

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