Venus O'Hara


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I’m Venus O’Hara, sex blogger, fetish model, actress and author of  Love Me Like You Hate Me, English for Perverts and The Mask of Venus.

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Does Size Matter?

It’s a very big question; possibly the biggest. The moment when you undress a new lover can be a moment of enormous joy or sudden disappointment. I remember an experience I had years ago with a male roommate that I really liked. He explained, probably a thousand times during our stay in the shared apartment, that he had a tiny member. That little piece of information never undermined my physical attraction towards him.

Sex Toy Review – Luna Smart Bead by LELO

I’ve just finished the first session with my new personal trainer and I can’t wait to begin the next one. Sometimes it can be hard to get in the mood to do any kind of sport and it seems like a real chore when you’re doing it. It’s only afterwards that you feel glad to have put in all the effort. Eventually, when you begin to see the real results of your hard work, the motivation to take exercise more regularly comes easily. When it comes to toning-up the pelvic floor, the rewards are even more obvious.

An Ode to Premature Ejaculation

I’ve never really understood that there is a ‘problem’ associated with premature ejaculation even though I understand that the possibility of it happening has become an obsession for many men. For me personally, quick sex sessions are the most authentic, entertaining and certainly the wildest ones. In my opinion, the best things in life tend to happen quickly and this is especially true when applied to the bedroom.

Confessions from My First Professional Pedicure

It was a warm and sticky Saturday afternoon and I began realise that I might’ve made a mistake by not booking a professional pedicure sooner. The reason that my anxiety began to grow was that I had a foot fetish photoshoot arranged for the following day and it was going to focus on my feet. I knew that they’d need to be in peak condition.

Classification of Orgasms

There’s nothing quite like having an orgasm. Just think of the amazing tension you experience just a moment before it’s released by sudden spasms and groans. Then there’s the exquisite sense of total relaxation that follows. I must admit that I used to think that women were either vaginal or clitoral as far as their orgasms were concerned. But I think our climax is not limited to two categories, there are many more.

Holey Hosiery!

Putting hosiery on properly requires delicacy and patience. Special care must always be taken with the thin material to avoid it ripping open accidently. There are things you can do to limit the possibility of damage, of course. Sometimes, no matter how careful you are, those precautions let you down. Getting a ladder in your tights is never less than frustrating

The Day I Masturbated for Science

“If you ever get a chance to test my orgasm under laboratory conditions, let me know” I told the scientist Pere Estupinyà when I first met him. I had just watched a TV documentary about sex in which a research team had observed and documented the physiological changes that occured to a couple when they had sexual intercourse. It fed my curiosity about my own responses during climax.

Fulfilling My Foot Fetish Model Responsibilities

Being a foot fetish model is not just about pointing my toes, curving my arches and flaunting my soles. I’ve discovered that it means much more than that. As time goes on, my responsibilities towards my foot fetish fans only seem to increase. Foot fetishists have needs and they are very articulate when they want to express them. Some of them even make specific requests when it comes to provocative foot imagery that I could explore.

Toys for the boys! The New Sex Toys for Men by LELO

‘But aren’t there any sex toys for men?’ That’s a question I’ve often been asked by men especially after I’ve told them about my own amazing collection of sex toys. More than one of them has even confessed that he would like to be a woman just to try them all out. It’s true that women have a much wider range of erotic toys to choose from. This is beginning to change. LELO, a brand leader, has just launched three new sex toys for men.

Sex Toy Review: Double-O – A Glass Dildo by A Touch of Glass

There’s nothing quite like feeling like a virgin all over again. This is especially true if you’re a sex toy tester. Although I consider myself to be experienced, wise and well-informed when it comes to sex, I still love it when I get the chance to discover something new. Something that provokes that thrilling yet nerve-wracking first-timer energy within me.

The Art of Playing Footsie (Foot Fetish)

Playing footsie is an ideal way to spice up a romantic dinner for two. It is even better when it is used as a distraction from yet another boring lunch with the in-laws. Footsie is defined as the action of touching another person’s feet, lightly, with your own.

Searching for a Sole-Mate

My soles hare the most sensitive part of my feet by far. They also represent the area that receives the most attention from my foot fans. If I were to accept each and every one of their offers to lick and suck my soles I know for certain that when I tried to stand up, the volume of saliva would send me sliding across the floor.

The Thrill of Going Barefoot (Foot Fetish)

I remember loving that barefoot feeling when I was young, especially when I went out into the garden in the early morning. As I placed my naked feet on the cold grass, when it was still wet with dew, the delicate skin on my soles and inbetween my toes never failed to respond.

My Foreign Fetish (Xenophilia)

I would definitely consider myself to be a xenophile. My love for foreign things began at a young age when I became obsessed with everything that was French. Later, I lived and studied in Paris as an important part of my universtity degree. My xenophilia became even greater.

Sex Toy Review: Siri 2 by Lelo The Best LELOgasms

I remember the first time I discovered what objectophilia was when I saw an interview with a woman who had fallen in love with the Eiffel tower.
I confess that at the time I thought it was very weird, but now, after testing SIRI 2, a new vibrator from LELO, I have started to feel more empathy with people who are attracted to objects.

Welcome to The Sex Toy Laboratory

Science was never my favourite subject at school; far from it in fact. It is strange then, that I adore watching scientific documentaries online.

Perhaps it is not particularly out of character because those programmes usually focus on the science of sexual response.

Discovering The Fourth Hole (Foot Fetish)

Recently, after enjoying a pedicure and the pampering that goes with it, I wanted to celebrate. I realised that there was really only one way to do it properly. If I really wanted to showcase my freshly-painted toenails and my new softer soles then discovering the power of my fourth hole was the best way. I cannot deny that I had an ulterior motive; those lubricants I needed to test, and review, had been waiting long enough. When you are a sex toy tester, it becomes inevitable that you will end up mixing business with pleasure or vice versa. Fortunately, I had a more than willing accomplice. Later, I laid down on my bed face up and I ordered him to remain standing at the foot so I could see him. “Strip” I ordered and he complied. I extended my long legs and pointed my toes at his vulnerable thighs. I ignored his genitalia completely and he became a little frustrated, trying to grab my teasing ankles. “Wait” I warned him and I resumed my intention of working him up in my own good time. I pressed my big toes into the tops of his legs and drew invisible designs on his thighs and then, going upwards, up and down his abdomen. My talented toes begin to close in on his ever more impressive stiffness. Then, I broke contact and edged backwards a little, bringing my feet together as he stared at them. I constructed my temporary fourth hole with my arches and I began to tease the tip of his bulging member with my new opening. He forgot himself...

Sex Toy Review 2X – A Double ended vibrator by Adrien Lastic

When I tried the 2X double ended vibrator by Adrien Lastic – which is ideal for sharing with a partner – I decided to be selfish and try it all to myself. The 2X vibrator can be enjoyed both vaginally and anally. Both ends of the vibrators have different dimensions and separate motors, provoking a variety of sensations.

The Female Sexual Consumer

There’s no doubt that women are spending a great deal more of their disposable income on sexual products of different kinds. The last decade has seen a rapid rise in the number of high-end erotic boutiques aimed at the female sexual consumer and couples. In their smooth design, attractive displays and simple cleanliness they put the old seedy male-orientated sex shops to shame. Women are spoilt for choice when it comes to sex toys. In fact, there’s so much variety on offer that erotic shopping can even be confusing for sex toy virgins. More recently, the Fifty Shades of Grey literary phenomenon has contributed to the increase of female sexual consumerism. Despite these advances, when it comes to actual ‘hands on’ sexual consumerism among women, then there’s no denying that men have a lot more variety and possibilities than we do. After all, the oldest profession was a service for men. Female sexual freedom is still a quite recent concept, but with increased demand, surely a better variety and range of offerings is just around the corner. There is still the widely held belief that women don’t need to pay for sex and that even if they did, it doesn’t seem to be as socially acceptable. However, in Australia where prostitution is legal, websites like Escorts & Babes, make the whole process a lot easier for women and men. There are many reasons why someone would pay for sex. One of them could be the need to live out a fantasy for a few minutes with someone that, ordinarily, they would never be with in their everyday life. This...

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