Venus O'Hara

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I’m Venus O’Hara, sex blogger, fetish model, actress and author of  Love Me Like You Hate Me, English for Perverts and The Mask of Venus.

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FETISH GLOSSARY

A complete glossary of fetishes with over 50 kinks. We all have a fetish, what’s yours?

VIDEOS

Interviews and short films featuring Venus O’Hara

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Naked with Heels

Photo: Lourdes Ribas  I went on a date recently with a potential sub. I was really looking forward to it until he begged me on Whatsapp to wear a skirt with stockings, suspenders and high heels for our first meeting. He seemed far too demanding for my liking and...

The Occupational Hazards of Being a Sex Toy Tester

Whenever my sex toy testing job arises in conversation, I have to underline the simple fact that it’s not just about orgasms. There are occupational hazards associated with any job and those have to be anticipated, and managed, if and when they might occur....

Summertime Sploshing

I have been thinking about doing a Sploshing photo-shoot for a long time, at least a couple of years in fact. The “Wet and Messy” fetish has fascinated me for all of that time but I have never quite got around to exploring it properly. The thing is, Sploshing appeals...

Bondage for Lazy Lovers

Sex isn’t always mind-blowing, and if you only like explosive sex with people that you’re really attracted to, then as a singleton, you can either wait until you find someone who really inspires you (although you might be waiting a long time) or you can masturbate...

Ankle Fetish

There is a primitive thrill associated with properly applied ankle restraint. The heady eroticism that is experienced through it can often be combined with an instinctive response that can only be described as animal in nature. Ankle restraint does not have to be part...

Foot Fetish – Learning to love my feet

I’ve never really liked my feet very much. My opinion has had to change recently, however, and I have some pursuasive foot fetishists to thank for it. To my eyes, looking down at them, the appearance of my feet just reminds me of how uncomfortable they can be...

Going Commando

I was pleased to discover recently that I was the proud owner of four hundred pairs of panties even though I prefer to “Go Commando” whenever the opportunity arises. The origin of the term “Going Commando” is disputed but what isn’t open to question is its...

My Best Belfies

The first time I heard the word “belfie” I wasn’t sure exactly what it meant. I’m only too aware of the phenomenal rise of the “selfie” or self-portrait taken with a smartphone or other mobile device. When I saw the first “belfie” posted on social media,...

Nude Selfies

As a model, I’d become used to the process of posing for a photographer, having a great many shots taken of me and then waiting for those images to be taken away on a portable drive and sorted through by someone else. When I could see them finally, so a final...

My Condom Fetish

Condoms turn me on, they really do. Can it be that I’m the only one who thinks this way? For some men, the moment when they have to pause their amorous enthusiasm can be awkward. It might not surprise you when I admit that I relish that very same moment. I like...

A Scandalous Life

Some people seem to think that my life must be scandalous. This might be because I write articles about sex. It could be something to do with my habit of being wired-up, from time to time, as a test-subject for scientific sex experiments. It might be because I...

Strap-on Sex

I could never truly appreciate how much physical effort a man puts in to having sex until I had experienced strap-on sex. I wonder if this is the reason why few women are really committed to having strap-on sex. There is another explanation for this. A woman who has...

Cyberslave: My New Short Film

Cyberslave is a short film that tells the story of a struggling dominatrix and her relationship with Slave X. It explores the dynamics of a D/s relationship, Financial Domination, virtual relationships, during the current economic crisis.. …. But who is the...

The Power of Orgasm Denial

Orgasm denial is the best way to deal with rebellious slaves. If a dominant is clever then there are wonderful ways to make someone suffer without physical pain ever being needed. O.D. is still the most satisfying option available to me. I went to Ikea one afternoon...

A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM

Introducing a little BDSM into your relationship can be a really great way to intensify things, learn your limits and become closer to your partner, but it can also be really intimidating–especially if you’ve never dabbled in it before. Perhaps...

Blindfold Fantasies

It was just recently that a good friend made an observation about my fetish for blindfolds. “It seems as though the main reason you wear blindfolds is so that you don’t have to see the men that you sleep with” She said. I agreed that sometimes it was...

Outdoor Fetish

Although Fetish photography usually works best when it’s done in a controlled environment like a dungeon or a specially decorated studio, I like to push the boundaries. One way to do this is to perform discreetly in a public place like a pizza restaurant. Part...

2012: A Year of British Fetish

Last year had some real highlights when it came to British fetish. For me, the one that stood out the most was the royal wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. If it was not William’s camp uniform that turned heads then it was Pippa Middleton’s...

More Tickle Torture

Even though the summer has faded, the effect of “50 Shades of Grey” still lingers. I’m sitting at my writing desk and I’m thinking about sex. Nothing unusual there you might think. It seems to me that everyone is caught up in the meaning and uses of BDSM...